E180: Positive Mindset with Libby Gill – Part 1 of 3

January 8, 2024


What defines a great leader, and how has your perception of leadership evolved over time?


Do you have control of your mindset as a sales professional? 


In this 3-part series, I speak with the amazing Libby Gill. Our conversational journey goes from human behavior, comfort zones, helping your prospects buy from you (which equals a scary change in their mind), and ultimately, we end up talking about how a positive mindset is a key for success – in sales and life!


In Part 1, Libby and I talk about:

  • Shawshank Redemption Mindset
  • Leading Millennials
  • Bringing everyone together by having a Mission and Vision
  • Marry the Vision…Date the Strategy


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Libby’s Bio:

Libby Gill knows change. She grew up on two continents and went to eight different schools before putting herself through college waiting tables. Starting her career as an assistant at Embassy Communications, a television company founded by the legendary Norman Lear, Libby survived three mergers to emerge as the head of publicity, advertising, and promotion for Sony’s worldwide television group in just five years. 


After her first career heading communications at media giants Sony, Universal, and Turner Broadcasting, Libby founded LA-based Libby Gill & Company, a leadership consulting and executive coaching firm. She guides individuals and organizations to lead through change, challenge, and chaos by deeply engaging employees in a shared future-focused vision of success. 


In her consulting, coaching, and keynotes Libby helps her clients:

 Reframe change as an opportunity for massive growth

 Re-energize your best performers to reach their full potential

 Reinvent your corporate culture to embrace ambiguity


Her clients include Abbott Medical, ADP, Disney, Ernst & Young, Facebook, First American Insurance, Hyundai, Microsoft, Sony, Sutter Health, Viacom, Warner Bros., Wells Fargo, as well as non-profits and small businesses. A global speaker, Libby has delivered keynote presentations on three continents and in 36 US states for organizations including Acura, ADP, Bank of America, Capital One, Cisco, Disney, Honda, Intel, Kellogg’s, Marriott International, Medtronic, Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines, United Healthcare, Vanguard, and many more. 


Libby is the author of five books, including the award-winning You Unstuck, Capture the Mindshare and the Market Share Will Follow, and Traveling Hopefully. Her latest book is The Hope-Driven Leader: Harness the Power of Positivity at Work. A former columnist for the Dallas Morning News, Libby has published book chapters and peer-reviewed articles for numerous journals and trade publications. Business leaders including 
Zappos.com CEO Tony Hsieh, Stephen M.R. Covey, Dr. Marshall Goldsmith, and Dr. Ken Blanchard have endorsed her work. Currently, she is co-authoring a book about Rice University’s Doerr Institute for New Leaders with former Brigadier General and Director of the Institute Thomas Kolditz, Ph.D. 


A frequent media guest, Libby has appeared on the CBS Early Show, CNN, Inside Edition, NPR, the Today Show, and in BusinessWeek, Time, the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and many more. Libby lives with her husband in Los Angeles and is the proud mother of two millennials sons and step-mom to a step-daughter and step-son.


Libby’s Links:

Website: https://libbygill.com/


Her Books: 
https://libbygill.com/books/


Twitter: 
https://twitter.com/LibbyGill


Facebook: 
https://www.facebook.com/meetlibbygill/?eid=ARDsv9uLoyb6ydPiTE7c3FWQucwW5VT6lY1kZObvuVbR2QYh3Moo4aBZep8Xma0qTbgBnGeAxlmNCM_N


Youtube: 
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzRyNbIN3VEQ-CFdqyJFPZA?view_as=public


LinkedIn: 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/libbygillleadershipexpert/

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Alright. Welcome to the sales experience podcast. My name again is Jason Cutter. On today’s episode I have Libby Gill now she’s an executive coach, leadership expert, speaker, bestselling author. What I found most fascinating about Libby is that her professional corporate experience prior to what she does now was in television and cable marketing, running PR and campaigns. For some companies you might have heard of like Sony pictures, Turner broadcast, and universal. Yet now she’s focused on helping leaders and groups on identifying who they are and why they need to take bolder risks. Libby, welcome to the sales experience podcast. 


    Libby: Thank you. Happy to be here.


    Jason: I’m so glad. And when we first spoke we discussed about a few things and I thought this would be great for where we want to start the conversation. The first one was mindset, which I know you focus a lot on. Obviously we’re talking about sales on this podcast, but you deal with leaders, founders, executives on mindset, and so what are you seeing? What kind of challenges do you experience and how do you help them kind of make the shift


    Libby: At its most simple. There’s sort of two types of mindset. One is the fixed mindset. It’s the way it is, can be effective with people who want to continue to handle things in an orderly fashion the way it’s been done before. And that might be okay. And then on the other side is the growth mindset. And I think that’s where you and I and a lot of people fall into that side of there’s gotta be a better way. We can change it, tweak it, grow it, develop it, and really working with people to see a belief in a different or better way. And it’s so funny in all the organizations that I’ve talked to over the years, cause I’ve been doing this part of my job, I hate to date myself, but almost 20 years now, it seems to fall into kind of two camps when they send in that change leader.


    Libby: And I always feel so sorry for anybody who’s labeled the change agent because it’s like you’re walking in the door with a target on your back. They just don’t even want to see you. But about 25% of people seem to be ready for that and waiting for somebody who’s going to unlock that. It’s like it’s time to change. It’s time to be bold and branch out and everybody else is on a kind of a continuum of, Oh my gosh, just, I’m going to just hide under my desk to, well, we’ll wait and see how this goes and I’ll, and it’s really developing. I mean, if we’re going to stick around, we’ve got to grow and change.


    Jason: Right. And like I think it’s a Shawshank redemption. You get busy living or get busy dying. Right? I mean it’s all about you’re either changing and growing in some way or you’re dying and decaying because there is no like stable. Some people think there’s stability, but there’s not, there’s, you’ve got to always be evolving in some way.


    Libby: Yeah. And who would want to do the same thing and God bless my relatives, but I have people in my family that same job for 30 years and yes, they’ll flow up through it somewhat, but I just think, how can you even be in the same field for that long? Wouldn’t you want to go experience another industry or discipline or part of the country or other country or something new and exciting? It’s just that it’s just how my brain works and my ex husband, good guy, but he used to refer to me as the malcontent because it was like, okay, I got this job now what’s after this one and what’s, you know, it was that. I’ve just thrived on that sense of there’s something else ahead of this one.


    Jason: Yeah. What else is out there? What can I do? What can I learn? What can I be a part of? I am the same way as you. I, you know, would never imagine myself being in one of those roles where I’m doing the same thing or something similar for a very long period of time. Right? Like somebody who’s working at a factory for 30 years and that’s what they do. And nothing wrong with it. Everyone’s got a different mindset. Like you’re saying. There’s the fixed mindset where somebody is happy with that. They like their comfort zone, they like what they know and what they do and that makes them happy. And it’s possible to, and I’m sure you’ve seen this where there’s people, let’s say like myself, where I have a growth mindset in some areas and then some areas I have more of a fixed mindset, you know, in my life where I, maybe I like these routines or I’m okay with this structure, the same kind of monotony day in and day out where I don’t have to think about it because it’s so fixed. And then there’s other parts where it unleashes and I’m just, you know,


    Libby: Well I think that in technology when you’re, it’s like, don’t make me get a new phone. I just got used to this one. You know, it’s that kind of sense of you don’t want everything to change all the time. But the most inspiring and exciting leaders are the ones who can see the future and in a very realistic and palpable way, and paint that picture for everybody else so that it’s kind of, Oh, I get what he’s talking about, or I get where she’s going and I see where I connect to that. And that’s when people get really excited.


    Jason: Yeah. And that change agent that change, you know, manage your person who’s coming in and facilitating this owner’s kind of wild idea of change or what they want to go about can be very painful for everyone else in the organization who maybe it’s not, they’re not on the same boat as the owner or founder or executive that wants to go that way. And they struggle with it. And usually, and I don’t know if this is what you’ve seen, but usually it’s because there’s not some core values and kind of mission and purpose that facilitates.


    Libby: Well, that’s the thing is you’ve got to make that not only that big picture of where we’re headed so clear, but you’ve also got to tie people to the outcomes so that when there’s a change, here’s the business outcome, here’s where we’re going and why and here’s the potential benefit to you. You’re going to learn something new. You’re going to be compensated, you’re going to grow, you’re going to take a big risk and feel great about yourself. Your team is going to be seen differently and we’ve got to be really, really mindful and I see this a lot with people who, if I could think of a new word for millennials, I would love to, because I think they get slapped unfairly with me. They’re slackers. They’re, it’s all such nonsense and it’s more on their older, their senior leaders who have to be mindful of the fact that there is no longevity in their lives.


    Libby: They didn’t see institutions or marriages or churches or anything last. So why should they expect to be treated as though they’re going to be there for another 10 or 20 or 30 years? They want to know I’m learning this so that this, and here’s how this will help me in my career, either here or on my next job. And it’s not that hard. And I’m constantly preaching this to more senior leaders is connect the dots for them. Let them know right down to, and here’s what this says and here’s what I’m training to do is called in case you want to add that to your skills on LinkedIn and why not? Because you know, in this market people are being poached, right and left. So you might as well acknowledge that if I can make a great place for you here and you’re going to continue to grow and flow through the organization, why would you leave?


    Jason: Yeah. And I think that’s interesting because I heard somebody talk about that in a keynote where it’s about the generations. And I think one of the things I’ve noticed as true is that you could label it and say, all millennials are this, or all gen this is that. And it’s not true. Some of it’s true and there’s some kind of tendencies in there and some basis of it. But there’s those different people. I mean there’s slacker baby boomers who literally job hopped and never, you know, figured out what they wanted to be when they grew up. Right. And it just changed. It’s for everyone. It’s really about who are you having in your company? What kind of people are you hiring and attracting and what do you expect from them and what are you providing?


    Libby: And again, it’s all about that is I hear a lot of young leaders saying, because millennials are now managing lots of other millennials, and gen Z is what’s the narrative they want to know what’s the story? What is the story of the company? How does that connect to my heart and soul and my future? And it should be, I mean, leaders should be able to say that if you can’t describe what the benefit of your organization or your job or your team is, then you should go figure that out because people internally want to know that they should, everybody should be able to recite, not the big old wop and mission statement that no one ever reads again, but that I love that March of dimes used to say, we save babies or maybe they still do. I mean, can you think of a higher calling? We save babies, we educate children, we make the quality of people’s lives better because we help them handle their diabetes. Whatever it is, connecting the people that feel like they’re not part of the process. You know, they’re the, I don’t think we have file clerks today, but whatever, you know the people on that food chain that still have to know, Oh, with the end of this process, I’m part of this whole machine that makes lives better for people and everybody needs to do that all the way up and down.


    Jason: Yeah. And I’ve seen organizations that are very successful from the top down when they have that mission, that vision, that overarching kind of sense of where they’re going and why. And then they have some core values in there that everyone can kind of hold each other accountable and understand that we’ll break that divide between the generations or how people think or you know, what this group needs. And, and it’s interesting cause I haven’t used this phrase in a lot, but I learned this and this is very applicable, especially when you’re talking about change. But you know, let’s say the millennials or people who want to know the why is the phrase marry the vision, date the strategy, right? So a company should marry the vision. What are we like March of dimes saving babies, right? That is the vision. That’s easy. Everyone knows it. And the organization. Now what’s different is that March of dimes, 1990 versus March of dimes 19 you know, or 2020 is going to be a lot different because the strategy is different. So you want to marry the vision but date the strategy and sometimes the strategy changes. And if everyone understands that, then when a new strategy comes, or a new software or a CRM or a new rule comes down, everyone understands like the ship is still going that direction. Now we’re just, you know, doing something a little difficult.


    Libby: I just wrote that down. I think that’s brilliant. That’s exactly right. And it’s, and you don’t connect people to the strategy. I mean you do in an operational sense, but that’s not what gets their hearts and souls all worked up and excited. It’s the vision. And frankly, if people will gravitate out of your company, if they don’t, if that vision doesn’t fit them and maybe sooner or later and honestly you hope it’s sooner because you know they should self disqualify and go out and do something that speaks to them. But leaders by really identifying what that is, and you know this in sales, I mean the last thing you want to do is spend all your time with somebody who’s not a prospect, right? You want to get them out kindly of course, but as soon as you can or you’re barking up the wrong tree.


    Libby: And it’s the same with your employees. You want to identify this is what we do here, this is how we do it and this is what we stand for. And when people can get behind that and know that they’re in the right place. Now the trick is of course leaders have to fulfill that for the longterm. You can’t say it and not do it. And there are companies that do that. It’s worse than not really identifying your vision. If you put it out there in a big bold way and then you don’t sustain it. Yeah, that’s bad news and it’s really up to the kind of leader. But back to that mindset issue, I see. What was sales-people, and I’ve worked with them a lot, is you know, is that they often have that growth mindset because you know, you get either inspired or beaten down by your numbers.


    Libby: And I guess it depends on the day and the economy and what you’re doing and how you’re doing it. But I see most sales people because they have that need to connect and, and for whatever reason that’s inherent to them. But they really need to always be growing and developing to learn how G our customers are changing. Our clients have changed. They’re so informed now they can find everything online before I even get a chance to talk to them. How do you change to meet those needs and the way that your customers are growing, so they’ve got to keep that development mindset or they’re going to, you know, they’re going to go the way of time to move out to something else.


    Jason: Alright. That’s it for part 1 of my conversation with Libby Gill. Make sure to check out cutterconsultinggroup.com where you can find this episode, the transcript and Libby’s links. Also make sure to subscribe to the show everywhere that podcasts can be found. iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify. You can find it on SoundCloud, Google play. Also the cutterconsultinggroup.com website. And as always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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By Jason Cutter February 26, 2025
How Can You Predict The Future Of Sales Ops? One of the keys to sales success is to be able to predict the future – what that other person is thinking, what they might say, what they will experience, how they will feel about the product/service. But what can you do – from a sales ops leadership perspective – to predict the future in masse of all the potential customers that will flow into and out of the sales process/funnel? That is a really tough one, but it is doable. Meeting Prospective Customers Where They Are The key is to always meet the prospective customers where they are and with the experience they hope to find. It’s a common theme now in these articles because it’s important AND widely disregarded – your potential customers do not care about you, your sales team, your company, your industry. They don’t care about your stats, your testimonials, your logos. They don’t care about your mission statement or your values. They only care about themselves. They also firmly believe that there is currently unlimited choice for any product/service, which means that everything in their mind is a commodity. Easily replaceable and interchangeable. Nothing (other than iPhones…which you can only get from Apple) is special to consumers unless they feel like it should be special. Are You Still Making It All About You? There is a good chance you are still running a marketing, sales funnel that is all about you. I bet if I looked at your company’s website that from the top down it’s all about you (the company). How great you are. What you do for people. What you have done for others. I bet if I tried to speak with your sales team, I will be made to go through your process whether I like it or not. Maybe fill out a form and wait for a response. Or made to call into a toll free number, even though I don’t want to talk to someone yet. Or made to use a chat widget on a site to get started. I bet when I speak with your sales team, 70-80% of the conversation will be about them, your company, and how amazing you all believe you are. This is all fair. No one starts a company to be mediocre. The goal is to provide value and make money. The missing piece, again like I said above, is no one cares about your goals. They only care about themselves. Predicting What Customers Want From The Sales Experience Back to your mission as sales ops leader – predict what massive amounts of prospective customers are going to want from the Sales Experience. It’s why I wrote about it last week and even offered up a book for free to help in any way that I can. To succeed at your mission, you have to stay ahead of the curve of what the public, and specifically – your buying demographic, psychographic, and valuegraphics, want from that experience. Key Questions To Shape The Sales Experience Do they want to call, text, email or chat? Probably all of them…so can you offer each one? (Don’t make someone decide if they want to go through your hoops…remove all the hoops) Do they need to see pricing online – should it be available and transparent? (In most cases, yes) What sales process will be ideal for moving the most people through the sales conversation to a successful outcome? (More discovery, empathy, active listening. More front-loaded about them, not you. Use the Authentic Persuasion Pathway as your model) Who are the decision makers? Is that individual going to decide or do they need to check with others for approval? (Set them up for success, and don’t force them to make a decision in the moment – you will just lose the potential sale) What type of follow up do they want and need until they make the buying decision? What type of post-purchase follow up would go above and beyond a) their expectations and b) what others in your industry do? If there is an ‘onboarding’ stage after the sale – how can you make that actually customer centric and successful? (It is rarely both) Can You Stay Ahead of the Curve? Remember – evolution is natural. The buying public is always evolving their desired sales experience. Can you predict the future of what they want so that when they encounter your company it matches what they were hoping to find – both in the experience and the solution to their need?
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
How do you, as a sales leader, help your team become Oracles that can predict the future? [make sure to read the Selling Effectiveness article this week https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.2.25.AM ] There are five ways to facilitate their Oracle-ness. Be Present in the Moment First, you have to get your salespeople to be in the moment. The challenge that most salespeople (and…humans, for that matter) experience is they are always thinking ahead. Salespeople default to thinking about what they will say next. The next part of their script or process. The next question they want to ask so they can get through discovery. The next part of the agreement they need to discuss and review. Their mind is too busy thinking about what they are going to say and do next, that they aren’t present. As weird as it sounds, if you want to predict the future you must be present. I have said this for decades: the moment you no longer need to think about what you are going to say/do next and can actually be present with your prospect and truly listen to what they say (and don’t say) – you will become a sales professional. Master Active Listening Second is Active Listening and paying closer attention. It’s actively listening…it’s taking what I mentioned above and putting into place. First step is to be present, second is to actually listen. For what they say. For what they aren’t saying. For changes in their tone. For when they are talking to someone on the side – who are they talking to, and is it about your sales conversation? If you sell in person, reading their body language and facial expressions. You must help them develop an almost sixth sense of listening (and yes, I know hearing is one of our senses…but this goes beyond hearing…it’s truly, deeply listening). Ask Better Questions Third, is to help them ask better questions. So many people in sales ask the discovery questions they are required to ask in order to check the discovery ‘box’. Or, they have done sales long enough they know all the answers, they think they know what everyone wants and why, so no reason to even ask questions. [Note – this type of salesperson thinks two dangerous things: 1 - everyone is the same and wants the same thing, 2 – people like to be sold to.] When your team asks better, deeper discovery questions with a focus on uncovering the what and the WHY, they will get better answers. Remember this – when you ask the right questions and you listen close enough, each prospect will tell you EXACTLY how to help them buy. Build Up Experience Fourth, build up experience. If you want to predict the future it comes from enough experience to know the probability of what will happen. For example, when I am in a season of commuting from home to an office, I am the type of person that can predict exactly what will happen on the freeway. Which lane is always faster around certain exits, which lanes always slow down, how much leaving five minutes later can make the drive suck a lot more. How do I know what will happen on a freeway with hundreds and hundreds of random people? Because of experience (and the fact that most people are just going through the motions in life so they become predictable). The more experience your team has with sales scenarios, they more they can predict the future. I generally see that it takes about six months for most people in a new sales role to have seen enough scenarios where they can start to know what will come next before it happens. Trust Intuition The fifth and final trait to help them with is intuition. One definition of intuition is “a thing that one knows or considers likely from instinctive feeling rather than conscious reasoning.” It’s that feeling you get when you know something, even if you cannot explain it. It’s what Malcom Gladwell wrote about in Blink! It’s what we do very well as humans, even if we don’t listen to it. The more you can help your team tune into their intuition and listen and trust it – the better they will do in helping persuade that other human. This goes back to the first suggestion – about being present. When your team trusts they know what to do and say next and they are mentally living in the moment with that prospective client, they can let their intuition guide them. Conclusion When I do trainings, public speaking, facilitating meetings, interviews, and sales – this is my main key to success. I trust and know that I have the experience to handle whatever comes my way in the present moment, while also knowing the destination I am heading towards. I can be present, let that experience and my intuition guide me instead of getting stuck in my head and worrying about what I will say next. Get your team to do some or all of these five steps – and they will become an amazing Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
The Oracle’s Role in The Matrix If you have seen the Matrix movies, starring Keanu Reeves (as Neo), then you are familiar with an Oracle. In the movies, the Oracle knows what will happen. She has seen it, and it is predestined. In the Oracles mind there is no such thing as free will. In the first Matrix movie, Neo goes to visit her and knocks a vase off the shelf, and it hits the ground and breaks. Right before he hits it, she says “Don’t worry about the vase.” Neo says, “How did you know?” Then the Oracle responds with “What’s really going to bake your noodle later on, is would you still have broken it if I hadn’t said anything.” Becoming an Oracle in Sales Your mission as a sales professional is to be an Oracle for your prospects and clients. To know the future. Then be able to see around corners, as they say. Which means you know what is going to happen before it happens, because you have enough experience that you have become a psychic. You want to be able to predict, with amazing accuracy: What will happen next What will happen after that What issues will pop up What your prospect/client is thinking before they think it What concerns they might have before they have them Eliminating the Fear of the Unknown During your presentation/demo you want to set the expectation of what is going to occur next. Remember, humans fear the unknown. They want to avoid risk as much as possible. Your sales presentation is risky and dangerous and very unknown. They don’t know if you have good intentions or not. Are you going to persuade them? Are you going to try to manipulate them? Are you going to overcharge them? Will you actually care about what they need and want? Dealing with salespeople is so scary. Yet they still need and/or want something, so it’s the dangerous game they must mentally play. Guiding the Buyer Step by Step When you explain what you are going to do in part 1 of your process, and then what that part is done you let them know the plan for part 2, and so on – they will be at ease in the moment. They will feel like they have control over this portion, that there is an exit they can take if they don’t want to proceed. That level of control will help them accept the risk of part 1, and part 2, and part 3. Tell them what you will do. Do it. Tell them what you did. This will validate that you can be trusted. Predicting Thoughts and Feelings The next level is being able to predict what they will think and feel before they do. You can use this information in your presentation (without telling them what you are doing). You can also verbalize it, which could sound like “I am guessing from experience that you are probably wondering about _____, so let’s cover that right now.” Or “most people I speak with ask about _____.” They will think – wow this person knows what I am thinking, he/she is in my mind! And that’s a good thing. A really good thing. Conclusion The more they feel like you know what you are doing, know what they are thinking, know what they are afraid of – the more they trust you as a Guide. Because Guides only know what they know because they have helped other Heros successfully accomplish their journeys. Your mission as a sales professional: Become an Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
What does it take to build the ideal Sales Experience? Why does it even matter? Maybe you think you already have one. You are a professional sales ops leader. You have put everything you can in place to help your salespeople sell more. You have optimized the processes so that your sales team can focus on one thing – selling. But I promise – even if you think all of that is true, it’s not. The Reality: No Perfect Sales Experience Exists I have never seen any company or team with the ‘ideal’ Sales Experience and operation. And to be honest – I have never built one successfully. Why would I admit that? Because the ideal Sales Experience is aspirational and business, teams, processes, and customer needs/desires are constantly changing. So as soon as you put new processes in place, something else needs to change and evolve. The Scalable Sales Success Iceberg In my Scalable Sales Success Iceberg – there are 24 categories that, when built out, create a scalable sales machine – where you can add in an input and get way more output. I would love to see companies have all 24 categories set up and running optimally. But that’s not even possible – because, as I mentioned, things are always changing. Focusing on the Biggest Levers Here is the key – to build the ideal Sales Experience takes focus on the biggest levers. The ones that, when pulled, create the biggest and best results. There are many processes and systems that you can put in place – but those are going to get you a few percentage points of improvement. Instead of putting it all in here, I want to make you a special offer. Email me at jason@sellingeffectiveness.com with your mailing address, and I will mail you the book that I co-wrote with Nick Glimsdahl called Reasons Not To Focus On The Sales Experience. It will be your starter guide, facilitating the creation of your ideal Sales Experience.
By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
By Jason Cutter February 17, 2025
The Abundance of Options Today we all have lots of options. While writing this I could speak into my phone and order whatever I want. I can get food delivered before I finish writing this article. I could get a TV delivered to my door before I wake up tomorrow. When someone wants to buy something, they are armed with as much information as they want to access. They can research, read reviews, and watch videos about a product or company. The Shift in Power to the Buyer Because of this, the power balance of sales has shifted away from the salesperson and company to the buyer. Knowledge is power – and they now have all the knowledge they want. With knowing that they have ultimate choice of what to buy (internet and globalization has led to the ability to order anything you want from anywhere…so you are no longer limited to the stores you can drive to and what they have on hand), it means that everything is a commodity in their minds. Nothing is unique or special. Everything is interchangeable. Does the Sales Experience Even Matter? So, this means the sales experience doesn’t matter anymore. There is no reason to put effort into the sales process, the conversations with potential customers. No value in spending time trying to ‘help’ people – since they just view products, salespeople, and companies as interchangeable. You are not special, so there is no benefit in caring. They will walk into your store, and they will decide what they want. They fill out your online for, and they decide if they answer when you call and how the call will go. They walk up to your event/booth, and they decide how the interaction will go and if they want to listen to your elevator pitch. They will let you know if they are interested in moving forward. They will let you know how they want to buy. So, like I said above, there is no real value anymore in the sales experience. Or could it actually be valuable? Is it possible that all that matters IS the sales experience? If people feel they have ultimate information and control of the buying process, how do they decide on what to buy and who to buy from? When I search on Amazon for a product type I have never purchased before, how do I pick? When I want to go shopping for garden supplies for the house, how do I pick where to go? When I need to buy a new fridge, who will I hand my money over to? The cheapest place with terrible service? The place with reasonable prices and great service? The Sales Experience Shapes the Decision I choose based on the sales experience that I will receive. With everything else being equal, I (and I believe most people) will select the place to shop at or the products to buy online based on the experience I receive. To me all that matters is the experience. While I am trying to buy something. Once I receive it – ensure it does what I need it to do. With the feeling of unlimited choices, it can actually be harder now to buy something that in the past. People get into analysis paralysis more often. Which means that for consumers to buy something new they need help. They need a professional salesperson. They need a sales experience that matches their expectations. They want a guide who will help them make the right decision for them, with an experience that goes above and beyond what more people receive any more when they walk into a store, call a company’s toll-free number, or visit a website and have to fill out a form. If you want to succeed in sales – the only thing that matters is the sales experience you provide.
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