[E293] Solving The CRM Problem, with Jeroen Corthout (Part 3)

January 17, 2024



How can a salesperson effectively persuade with empathy?


Like so many words associated with sales, there is so much to talk about the importance of authenticity & persuasion. And in today’s selling environment, authenticity is the most important virtue sales people can demonstrate, even if it means pointing them to a competitor that can give them exactly what they need.


Contrary to what people believe, persuasion is all about getting emotional engagement with other people. It’s not a shady tactic that involves convincing and forcing people to do things they don’t want to do. It is about trying to understand the other person better than our own interests.


A mindset shift is often required for those who want to increase their persuasive abilities. Genuinely believe what other people have to say, and what’s in their mind is genuinely as valuable as what is in your own mind. A persuasive sales conversation is at its root, about the exchange of value. 


Listen more, understand people’s words more, and focus on the value you bring to your clients. Learning and understanding how to do this shifts the seller into a position to persuade with empathy.



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Jeroen’s Bio

Jeroen is co-founder and CEO of Salesflare, an intelligent CRM built for SMBs selling B2B, mostly popular with agencies and fast-growing startup companies.

Salesflare itself was founded when Jeroen and his co-founder Lieven wanted to follow up on the leads for their software company in an easier way. They didn’t like to keep track of their leads manually and built Salesflare, which pulls customer data together automatically and then actively helps you to follow up.

It’s now the most popular CRM on Product Hunt and top-rated on review platforms like G2 for its ease of use and automation features.

Links

Websitehttps://salesflare.com

Linkedinhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/jeroencorthout/

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome to part three of my conversation with Yerun Korthout. We are going to keep going with this conversation. If you haven't checked it out, make sure to listen to part one and two, where We're talking about what he's doing with sales flare, what it was designed to help overcome with the challenges in business with sales teams, with sales reps, and what they should be focusing on, what they're good at versus historically what they're not so good at.


    And if you're in sales, you can relate to this. If you've led a sales team like I have or running a team, then you can relate even more. And so we talk about his whole journey with sales and what he thinks makes for effective, authentic persuasion. in the sales process. And I really like some of the stuff that he says throughout this episode.


    So here you go. Part three, enjoy.


    Jeroen: Since the very first product we had, we waited about two years. With offering a trial sign up without me being involved in line during that whole period, I would take people through it end to end, usually on Skype back in the day,


    Jason: back in the day, pre zoom explosion, back when all that stuff was done via Skype.


    So funny. And I love the fact that you share that because that's usually what it takes. It's getting in there and going through it and doing it enough times. And then what I appreciate about your story too, is that you then built the system and then built it so that others are doing it and you haven't done it.


    I see a lot of founders, a lot of leaders where they feel like no one else can do it like they can, or they're just not good at building the systems. And that's where they need help, which is like to extract them from the trenches, if you will. Yeah,


    Jeroen: I believe that at some point you need to get out of the trenches to a certain extent.


    It's good to do it first yourself. So at least you can more quickly iterate. There's not like one person between you and the customer, for instance, or whatever you're trying to fix. You can find out how it should be done that helps to quickly get something going that Works and that also helps and afterwards to understand the job one who to hire and to also how to actually get that person up to speed and then hopefully that person is Better at the job than you are but in the very initial stages you was maybe worse at the job Need to do it yourself anyway


    Jason: I love that point.


    A lot of times I see people, especially sales leaders and or executives where they're worried about someone being better than them. There's too much ego wrapped up in that. And I love the fact that you pointed out, the goal is to get people who are better than you at. Those type of tasks so you can move your way into what's an even better fit for you with your current states of where you're at, extracting yourself from that onboarding and the trial setup, how much of your current day and role is selling like what percentage would you say


    Jeroen: you're selling to customers?


    Yeah, I would say 5 to 10%. Of course, I have a lot of other sales roles as well. It's a lot of different types of partnerships. If you add that all together, it's more around 25, 30%, I would say. Got it. And then a lot of marketing and product management and general stuff. Finance, etc. HR.


    Jason: Makes sense. So if we're talking about sales, and you mentioned already your sales style, but for you, with the podcast and what I focus on, What does it mean for you to be authentic?


    Jeroen: I think it's not trying to oversell. Listening very well to what the other person wants and applying a certain amount of empathy there. Instead of selling whatever it is you think you have, make sure that you first very well understand their situation and what they're looking for, so you can point them to the right place, even if that may be Another service, like I think two days ago, we got with someone on a call and they explained what they wanted.


    And I was like, no, that's not us. That's active campaign. You should go to active. I hope they are signing up there and become a happy customer. But it was, I just immediately saw that it wasn't a great fit and keeping up your values for me is also an important part of that's defending the thing you believe in and the thing you're trying to change.


    And. Finding a common ground between that and what the customers are expecting of you.


    Jason: Got it. I love it. Where has persuasion fit in your success?


    Jeroen: I think there's persuasion probably in every sort of Sales conversation and partnership on my end. It's mostly, I really tried to understand the other person, maybe better than our own interests.


    And I never tried to force someone into something beyond that. So I try to understand what will make them make certain decision and then work on that. And try to understand also very well what the limits are there for them then. So I can work with these things and persuade them to, whatever, get on my podcast, get me on their podcast, get them to integrate with us.


    Put us on our, their marketplace, get them to feature us, whatever. There's all kinds of partnerships that we do.


    Jason: Yeah, I love it. And the fact that you've said it obviously makes me happy because I feel the same way, but that persuasion is in everything, right? And not just persuading a customer to buy, but all of those various things that you talked about, perfect examples that, like I say on my podcast.


    At the end, every time everything in life is sales, right? And so there's some aspect of persuasion and selling and wanting to move somebody towards whatever your goal is. But like you said, with the authentic side is doing it with their best interest in mind and as a team event, right? Not just one sided forcing or manipulating.


    Jeroen: Yeah, I want to say like they usually say in a sort of cliche kind of way, like win situations and all.


    Jason: Yeah. And I think that's important because, and this kind of goes to something we talked about early on. There's the classic salesperson mode that people don't like, or people are afraid of, or have struggled with as a customer.


    And that's generally win lose. Like they don't care what happens to the customer. They just want to win. And then there's the other side, which is the order taker, which is so afraid of doing that and don't want to be that person, right? Because they don't like it. And then generally those people go lose, win, where they want to help somebody else win, even if it's at their own expense.


    And I see a lot of salespeople who they can close some deals, but usually the price is low. They're giving away terms. They're giving away lots of things that then make it not a good deal. Yeah. At the end of the day.


    Jeroen: Yeah. That's part of it as well. Knowing where the limits are when a customer is, for instance, asking for a discount just because they see a discount field.


    They're going to sign up at the last moment to see the discount field and feeling when that's the case versus when they really need a discount. For instance, there's all kinds of little things like that, where you need to feel where the win situation lies, where you can make it interesting for both parties in a fair way.


    Jason: Now, obviously, one of the things for you and your experience is working with other salespeople, seeing salespeople. In your situation now, obviously you're dealing with business owners and helping them with their CRM, but also seeing salespeople and interacting with them at some level. What do you feel like the best salespeople do?


    Jeroen: On a completely different subject, not at all about authenticity, but having a system being properly organized to make every customer. Feel like they are the only customer, not like you're a number in a large series of customers, which in the end, every good salesperson should have a large number of customers, but you cannot make these customers feel like a number.


    You need to make them feel like you're only having a conversation with them basically, and you're super important to them. And you can only do that if you have a proper system. So a proper system that you get in touch with them at the right moments, that you exactly remember what you talked about last, what sort of the points are that are important to them, what the next step is that you'll logically get to.


    And that might not be the next step in your generalized sales process for them. The buying process on their end might look slightly different than it is in your sales pipeline, and even knowing that subtlety. For every single customer is I think what really distinguishes the sort of one off Accidentally good salespeople from the systematically good salespeople.


    Jason: That's it for part three Hopefully you enjoyed my conversation with yaroon. Make sure to come back tomorrow catch the final fourth part And I will see you then that's it for another episode of the sales experience podcast. Thank you so much for listening. If you find yourself on iTunes, can you leave the show a rating and a review?


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    To find out how I can help you or your company create scalable sales success. I will see you on the next sales experience podcast episode, and keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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By Jason Cutter February 26, 2025
How Can You Predict The Future Of Sales Ops? One of the keys to sales success is to be able to predict the future – what that other person is thinking, what they might say, what they will experience, how they will feel about the product/service. But what can you do – from a sales ops leadership perspective – to predict the future in masse of all the potential customers that will flow into and out of the sales process/funnel? That is a really tough one, but it is doable. Meeting Prospective Customers Where They Are The key is to always meet the prospective customers where they are and with the experience they hope to find. It’s a common theme now in these articles because it’s important AND widely disregarded – your potential customers do not care about you, your sales team, your company, your industry. They don’t care about your stats, your testimonials, your logos. They don’t care about your mission statement or your values. They only care about themselves. They also firmly believe that there is currently unlimited choice for any product/service, which means that everything in their mind is a commodity. Easily replaceable and interchangeable. Nothing (other than iPhones…which you can only get from Apple) is special to consumers unless they feel like it should be special. Are You Still Making It All About You? There is a good chance you are still running a marketing, sales funnel that is all about you. I bet if I looked at your company’s website that from the top down it’s all about you (the company). How great you are. What you do for people. What you have done for others. I bet if I tried to speak with your sales team, I will be made to go through your process whether I like it or not. Maybe fill out a form and wait for a response. Or made to call into a toll free number, even though I don’t want to talk to someone yet. Or made to use a chat widget on a site to get started. I bet when I speak with your sales team, 70-80% of the conversation will be about them, your company, and how amazing you all believe you are. This is all fair. No one starts a company to be mediocre. The goal is to provide value and make money. The missing piece, again like I said above, is no one cares about your goals. They only care about themselves. Predicting What Customers Want From The Sales Experience Back to your mission as sales ops leader – predict what massive amounts of prospective customers are going to want from the Sales Experience. It’s why I wrote about it last week and even offered up a book for free to help in any way that I can. To succeed at your mission, you have to stay ahead of the curve of what the public, and specifically – your buying demographic, psychographic, and valuegraphics, want from that experience. Key Questions To Shape The Sales Experience Do they want to call, text, email or chat? Probably all of them…so can you offer each one? (Don’t make someone decide if they want to go through your hoops…remove all the hoops) Do they need to see pricing online – should it be available and transparent? (In most cases, yes) What sales process will be ideal for moving the most people through the sales conversation to a successful outcome? (More discovery, empathy, active listening. More front-loaded about them, not you. Use the Authentic Persuasion Pathway as your model) Who are the decision makers? Is that individual going to decide or do they need to check with others for approval? (Set them up for success, and don’t force them to make a decision in the moment – you will just lose the potential sale) What type of follow up do they want and need until they make the buying decision? What type of post-purchase follow up would go above and beyond a) their expectations and b) what others in your industry do? If there is an ‘onboarding’ stage after the sale – how can you make that actually customer centric and successful? (It is rarely both) Can You Stay Ahead of the Curve? Remember – evolution is natural. The buying public is always evolving their desired sales experience. Can you predict the future of what they want so that when they encounter your company it matches what they were hoping to find – both in the experience and the solution to their need?
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
How do you, as a sales leader, help your team become Oracles that can predict the future? [make sure to read the Selling Effectiveness article this week https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.2.25.AM ] There are five ways to facilitate their Oracle-ness. Be Present in the Moment First, you have to get your salespeople to be in the moment. The challenge that most salespeople (and…humans, for that matter) experience is they are always thinking ahead. Salespeople default to thinking about what they will say next. The next part of their script or process. The next question they want to ask so they can get through discovery. The next part of the agreement they need to discuss and review. Their mind is too busy thinking about what they are going to say and do next, that they aren’t present. As weird as it sounds, if you want to predict the future you must be present. I have said this for decades: the moment you no longer need to think about what you are going to say/do next and can actually be present with your prospect and truly listen to what they say (and don’t say) – you will become a sales professional. Master Active Listening Second is Active Listening and paying closer attention. It’s actively listening…it’s taking what I mentioned above and putting into place. First step is to be present, second is to actually listen. For what they say. For what they aren’t saying. For changes in their tone. For when they are talking to someone on the side – who are they talking to, and is it about your sales conversation? If you sell in person, reading their body language and facial expressions. You must help them develop an almost sixth sense of listening (and yes, I know hearing is one of our senses…but this goes beyond hearing…it’s truly, deeply listening). Ask Better Questions Third, is to help them ask better questions. So many people in sales ask the discovery questions they are required to ask in order to check the discovery ‘box’. Or, they have done sales long enough they know all the answers, they think they know what everyone wants and why, so no reason to even ask questions. [Note – this type of salesperson thinks two dangerous things: 1 - everyone is the same and wants the same thing, 2 – people like to be sold to.] When your team asks better, deeper discovery questions with a focus on uncovering the what and the WHY, they will get better answers. Remember this – when you ask the right questions and you listen close enough, each prospect will tell you EXACTLY how to help them buy. Build Up Experience Fourth, build up experience. If you want to predict the future it comes from enough experience to know the probability of what will happen. For example, when I am in a season of commuting from home to an office, I am the type of person that can predict exactly what will happen on the freeway. Which lane is always faster around certain exits, which lanes always slow down, how much leaving five minutes later can make the drive suck a lot more. How do I know what will happen on a freeway with hundreds and hundreds of random people? Because of experience (and the fact that most people are just going through the motions in life so they become predictable). The more experience your team has with sales scenarios, they more they can predict the future. I generally see that it takes about six months for most people in a new sales role to have seen enough scenarios where they can start to know what will come next before it happens. Trust Intuition The fifth and final trait to help them with is intuition. One definition of intuition is “a thing that one knows or considers likely from instinctive feeling rather than conscious reasoning.” It’s that feeling you get when you know something, even if you cannot explain it. It’s what Malcom Gladwell wrote about in Blink! It’s what we do very well as humans, even if we don’t listen to it. The more you can help your team tune into their intuition and listen and trust it – the better they will do in helping persuade that other human. This goes back to the first suggestion – about being present. When your team trusts they know what to do and say next and they are mentally living in the moment with that prospective client, they can let their intuition guide them. Conclusion When I do trainings, public speaking, facilitating meetings, interviews, and sales – this is my main key to success. I trust and know that I have the experience to handle whatever comes my way in the present moment, while also knowing the destination I am heading towards. I can be present, let that experience and my intuition guide me instead of getting stuck in my head and worrying about what I will say next. Get your team to do some or all of these five steps – and they will become an amazing Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
The Oracle’s Role in The Matrix If you have seen the Matrix movies, starring Keanu Reeves (as Neo), then you are familiar with an Oracle. In the movies, the Oracle knows what will happen. She has seen it, and it is predestined. In the Oracles mind there is no such thing as free will. In the first Matrix movie, Neo goes to visit her and knocks a vase off the shelf, and it hits the ground and breaks. Right before he hits it, she says “Don’t worry about the vase.” Neo says, “How did you know?” Then the Oracle responds with “What’s really going to bake your noodle later on, is would you still have broken it if I hadn’t said anything.” Becoming an Oracle in Sales Your mission as a sales professional is to be an Oracle for your prospects and clients. To know the future. Then be able to see around corners, as they say. Which means you know what is going to happen before it happens, because you have enough experience that you have become a psychic. You want to be able to predict, with amazing accuracy: What will happen next What will happen after that What issues will pop up What your prospect/client is thinking before they think it What concerns they might have before they have them Eliminating the Fear of the Unknown During your presentation/demo you want to set the expectation of what is going to occur next. Remember, humans fear the unknown. They want to avoid risk as much as possible. Your sales presentation is risky and dangerous and very unknown. They don’t know if you have good intentions or not. Are you going to persuade them? Are you going to try to manipulate them? Are you going to overcharge them? Will you actually care about what they need and want? Dealing with salespeople is so scary. Yet they still need and/or want something, so it’s the dangerous game they must mentally play. Guiding the Buyer Step by Step When you explain what you are going to do in part 1 of your process, and then what that part is done you let them know the plan for part 2, and so on – they will be at ease in the moment. They will feel like they have control over this portion, that there is an exit they can take if they don’t want to proceed. That level of control will help them accept the risk of part 1, and part 2, and part 3. Tell them what you will do. Do it. Tell them what you did. This will validate that you can be trusted. Predicting Thoughts and Feelings The next level is being able to predict what they will think and feel before they do. You can use this information in your presentation (without telling them what you are doing). You can also verbalize it, which could sound like “I am guessing from experience that you are probably wondering about _____, so let’s cover that right now.” Or “most people I speak with ask about _____.” They will think – wow this person knows what I am thinking, he/she is in my mind! And that’s a good thing. A really good thing. Conclusion The more they feel like you know what you are doing, know what they are thinking, know what they are afraid of – the more they trust you as a Guide. Because Guides only know what they know because they have helped other Heros successfully accomplish their journeys. Your mission as a sales professional: Become an Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
What does it take to build the ideal Sales Experience? Why does it even matter? Maybe you think you already have one. You are a professional sales ops leader. You have put everything you can in place to help your salespeople sell more. You have optimized the processes so that your sales team can focus on one thing – selling. But I promise – even if you think all of that is true, it’s not. The Reality: No Perfect Sales Experience Exists I have never seen any company or team with the ‘ideal’ Sales Experience and operation. And to be honest – I have never built one successfully. Why would I admit that? Because the ideal Sales Experience is aspirational and business, teams, processes, and customer needs/desires are constantly changing. So as soon as you put new processes in place, something else needs to change and evolve. The Scalable Sales Success Iceberg In my Scalable Sales Success Iceberg – there are 24 categories that, when built out, create a scalable sales machine – where you can add in an input and get way more output. I would love to see companies have all 24 categories set up and running optimally. But that’s not even possible – because, as I mentioned, things are always changing. Focusing on the Biggest Levers Here is the key – to build the ideal Sales Experience takes focus on the biggest levers. The ones that, when pulled, create the biggest and best results. There are many processes and systems that you can put in place – but those are going to get you a few percentage points of improvement. Instead of putting it all in here, I want to make you a special offer. Email me at jason@sellingeffectiveness.com with your mailing address, and I will mail you the book that I co-wrote with Nick Glimsdahl called Reasons Not To Focus On The Sales Experience. It will be your starter guide, facilitating the creation of your ideal Sales Experience.
By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
By Jason Cutter February 17, 2025
The Abundance of Options Today we all have lots of options. While writing this I could speak into my phone and order whatever I want. I can get food delivered before I finish writing this article. I could get a TV delivered to my door before I wake up tomorrow. When someone wants to buy something, they are armed with as much information as they want to access. They can research, read reviews, and watch videos about a product or company. The Shift in Power to the Buyer Because of this, the power balance of sales has shifted away from the salesperson and company to the buyer. Knowledge is power – and they now have all the knowledge they want. With knowing that they have ultimate choice of what to buy (internet and globalization has led to the ability to order anything you want from anywhere…so you are no longer limited to the stores you can drive to and what they have on hand), it means that everything is a commodity in their minds. Nothing is unique or special. Everything is interchangeable. Does the Sales Experience Even Matter? So, this means the sales experience doesn’t matter anymore. There is no reason to put effort into the sales process, the conversations with potential customers. No value in spending time trying to ‘help’ people – since they just view products, salespeople, and companies as interchangeable. You are not special, so there is no benefit in caring. They will walk into your store, and they will decide what they want. They fill out your online for, and they decide if they answer when you call and how the call will go. They walk up to your event/booth, and they decide how the interaction will go and if they want to listen to your elevator pitch. They will let you know if they are interested in moving forward. They will let you know how they want to buy. So, like I said above, there is no real value anymore in the sales experience. Or could it actually be valuable? Is it possible that all that matters IS the sales experience? If people feel they have ultimate information and control of the buying process, how do they decide on what to buy and who to buy from? When I search on Amazon for a product type I have never purchased before, how do I pick? When I want to go shopping for garden supplies for the house, how do I pick where to go? When I need to buy a new fridge, who will I hand my money over to? The cheapest place with terrible service? The place with reasonable prices and great service? The Sales Experience Shapes the Decision I choose based on the sales experience that I will receive. With everything else being equal, I (and I believe most people) will select the place to shop at or the products to buy online based on the experience I receive. To me all that matters is the experience. While I am trying to buy something. Once I receive it – ensure it does what I need it to do. With the feeling of unlimited choices, it can actually be harder now to buy something that in the past. People get into analysis paralysis more often. Which means that for consumers to buy something new they need help. They need a professional salesperson. They need a sales experience that matches their expectations. They want a guide who will help them make the right decision for them, with an experience that goes above and beyond what more people receive any more when they walk into a store, call a company’s toll-free number, or visit a website and have to fill out a form. If you want to succeed in sales – the only thing that matters is the sales experience you provide.
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