[E299] Honest to Greatness, with Peter Kozodoy (Part 4)

January 17, 2024


What does success mean to you in the context of being an entrepreneur, and how do you measure it?


Despite the less glamorous aspects of running your own business, the liberating feeling of having that autonomy and being able to make our own decisions are definitely worth it. And that’s one of the defining factors of success. It is having the creative freedom to run our business with our own ideas, rather than being limited by someone else’s vision or rules.


You are now your own boss. And by definition gives you the right to your own successes and failures. Whether it is a victory or challenge, the ups and downs that you’ll experience in setting up, running, and growing your own business. 


Despite all these, running your own business is the absolute best way to get the freedom and flexibility that many of us long for. The pull towards freedom is innate in all of us as human beings. It also automatically creates this sense of purpose as you continually push yourself and set ambitious goals.


To experience that freedom and success, you’ll need to set up your business the right way, from an ambitious vision and business model to the day of how you run your business.


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Peter’s Bio

Peter Kozodoy is the award-winning author of Honest to Greatness, an Inc. 5000 serial entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, and business coach who works with organizations and their leaders to help them overcome self-limiting bullsh*t and use honesty to achieve greatness.

His articles on leadership and entrepreneurship have appeared in Forbes, Inc., HuffPost, PR Daily, and more. He holds a BA in economics from Brandeis University and an MBA from Columbia Business School and lives outside New York City with his wife and their spoiled dog. To strike up an honest conversation, visit PeterKozodoy.com.


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  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back to the sales experience podcast. If you haven't make sure to listen to the first three parts. Today's episode is part for the final segment of my conversation with Peter. We're going to keep rolling. We're going to talk about his early job experiences and funny enough. He's always been in sales, which is different than myself.


    And I just love the fact that he also realizes that everything in life is sales. And so that's just fun. But here you go. Here's the final segment of my conversation with Peter.


    Peter: I find the worst salespeople are the ones that are like, get all of it. Oh, I got a hot lead. And then the whole day, their mindset's in the hot lead.


    And it's okay, so there's one lead. Let's go get 50 more of them. And it's just a that's what I do. That's a thing, right? Just numbers is very sort of nonchalance to it.


    Jason: Where does that balance though? Because I know exactly what you're talking about with celebrating the small wins, celebrating the victories, being excited.


    About those little milestones, little or big, and the over under with the emotional, like I got a hot lead, like this is, I'm going to be rich. And it's then all their eggs are in that one emotional basket that will probably get stepped on because it takes more than one lead. Yeah.


    Peter: And listen, celebrating wins is awesome.


    That's great. And I'm a big fan of rituals. Like we have the bell that rings every time someone makes a sale or an email goes around. I'm a big fan of that. Again, great for the ego, right? To be honest about what it takes to achieve outcomes is to be honest about ego. You and I have said that word bunch today.


    And we as leaders need to take steps to make sure that people that work for us have praise, warranted praise, not undue praise. And especially, I really try, I fail sometimes, as everyone does, really try every time one of my employees, I'm really on them for something, I will, not always, most often I try to make sure I say to them, Hey, I recognize that you went above and beyond here.


    Really nice job. Just want you to let you know that. What's interesting to me is. with all the experiences I've had and in clients and my wife being in the workforce and everything. Oftentimes it doesn't take more than that. Just like a simple acknowledgement. Hey, good job. Really all it takes most times.


    So I see companies go the other way too. They're like all nuts every time and it gets exhausting, right? It's Oh no, here comes the champagne boat again. And again, we get it. So yeah, it's interesting.


    Jason: Yeah. If you go too far to the other extreme, it gets desensitized to it where it's just okay, like now it doesn't mean anything because it's always a celebration.


    And like I've said, if you do spiffs and contests, the problem is if you do them regularly, you have to keep raising the bar. It's 50, then it's 100, then it's a TV, then it's a cruise, then it's a trip to the moon. You have to keep raising the bar. If it's extrinsically trying to motivate the team to win instead of intrinsic, but I think to the point you made a few minutes ago, I think there's always a balance where managers, leaders can go in a negative direction, which is someone says, Hey, I just had a good lead and they say, that's great, except where are the other 50 you were supposed to have today.


    And they beat someone down. Is that my dad?


    Peter: Where's the A


    Jason: where's the A or where's the six other A's? Because that's great, but where's all the other ones? And I think it's, you gotta celebrate the win, and then encourage hey, that's great. Keep on going. You're on a roll and keep it instead of that scarcity.


    You're supposed to do 10 widgets today. You made nine and no porridge for you tonight, right? Yeah, I agree. What's the most non sales job that you've ever had?


    Peter: That's a tough one because I've owned my own company since 22. And when you're a company owner, you're in sales, whether you want it or not.

    Before that, I sold figure skates and figure skating equipment. I really It's always been in it. Other things I've done, like after a professional actor, guess what? Acting is sales. Getting into school, that's sales. Everything's sales. I love it. Being married. That's a lot of sales.


    Yeah. So that's my point earlier. Like it is all sales. I really admire people who grew up with a door to door sales experience. I think everyone, I did not have that experience and I wish I had, I think it would have been really good for me to have that. Before I started my company and I just hired someone the other day, a new speaker agency.


    And I was asking the owner about her experiences again. I used door to door sales and I was like, say no more. You're hired because if you have that experience and you're hardened to it and you understand process like. That is such a huge. Have you ever done something like that, Jason?


    Jason: I never have, but I've managed people who have come from that and hired people out of that.


    And they are such hard workers. They're so thankful to not do it. And they all know their numbers. They know that if I knock on 200 doors, I'm going to get five people to answer. I'm going to sell two of them. Now the question is how can I knock on 200 doors a day? And it's like, how do I knock on more doors faster?


    Because that's the formula. That's it. Which is amazing. What is your definition of success?


    Peter: Freedom. Being able to do whatever I want. Having optionality. That's why I became a business owner. And I tell this to entrepreneurs. I'm like, new entrepreneurs. Oh, I'm going to be an entrepreneur. I see those entrepreneurs on Shark Tank, I'm going to be worth a hundred million dollars.


    I'm like slow your roll there, bud. Take it easy. Because most of it's spent in poverty. And self doubt and disillusion and everything. So there's step one. I say to them here's the question. Would you rather be a broke entrepreneur, make your own way in the world, or would you rather have consistent money and have to work for someone else?


    I would rather be a broke entrepreneur. I want to make sure that my success is my success, my failure is my failure. I want to own it. And to me, ownership over time, over projects, having a conversation with Mr. Jason Cutter that to me is success.


    Jason: Do you, total sidebar, do you consider yourself just completely unemployable?


    Peter: Yeah. Oh, I'd be a total pain in the ass to work for someone else because I'd question everything, especially now. Honesty. I'd be like that. Listen, I hope you don't mind me saying so, but I think that's a dishonest result and here's why. And I hope I haven't offended you. Yeah.


    Jason: Nobody wants that. Most business owners don't, especially because they're going to see it as a threat to their ego and to their position.


    And they're supposed to be the one that knows everything and in charge of everything. And there's a limit to how much you can question. Yeah


    Peter: but interestingly, the leaders in my book show from Warren Buffett to the CEOs of Domino's and Quicken Loans and the Ritz Carlton and, on and on.


    They all share one common trait, which is they love these three little words. It's not, I love you. It's, I don't know. They just literally spend all their time sitting back and being like, I have no idea, right? What do you think? Oh, that sounds reasonable. Let's try that. Not the ego driven leader. I use that word loosely.


    Authority, we'll say, because it's not a leader. Authority. That is, I should know everything and I'm the, that's not the role of an executive today, where we all have the same amount of information. We all have the same Google password here. It's really changed. And that's what I hope people understand. One of the big messages in my book.


    Jason: And I think that's a valid point, which I love and a great reminder. People don't need information anymore. There's some people who need information. Some people need knowledge or reminders about things, but we all have it. Especially your prospective customers don't need you for knowledge.


    They don't need you for information. They need you for wisdom, which is the, I've got knowledge. I know more about you and your product or service than you probably do. Mr. Salesperson. So tell me what the hell it's going to do for me or how you can help me. I need wisdom, not knowledge. So that's great.


    Last question. Curveball. I didn't tell you this one in advance. Journey or the destination.


    Peter: I'm ashamed to admit, but I got to be honest. I'm destination focused. I'm not proud of that. Why not? I don't know, because I find myself rushing through parts of the journey, and I have been trying to be better at reminding myself to slow down, to appreciate a friend of mine, who I spent time with in Israel, has a tattoo that says in Hebrew, this too shall pass, and it's about, this too shall pass when it's bad, but this too shall pass when it's good, too, and I really try to remind myself to slow down, but I don't do a good job Destination.


    Jason: And I said yes, because Most people are going to say journey. Most people say it because they feel like that's the right answer because that's what you're supposed to say. And I love the fact that you said destination. I agree. I think there's always a balance, but the journey is great. But if you don't have a destination, you're going after the journey is just a leaf in the wind.


    So you you could debate, you need both or you need the destination to have a journey.


    Peter: I'll get in trouble for saying this, but you're absolutely right. And people who cling to the, it's about the journey, not the destination. It sounds like something that people who don't achieve their goals say, just like it's not all about the money is something that people who don't have money makes them feel better.


    I know it's a controversial thing to say, but with some of these things, some of these idiomatic expressions that we have can actually, I think, be harmful in the end. I feel like the people who push past those things sometimes figure out on the other side that's weird, why does everybody say that?


    Because it's actually not true. When I started making money in my business, Jason, tell you what, I felt pretty darn good about it.


    Jason: Yeah, and I think there's some truth also to the journey and the process is important because once you get to the destination, you also learn that's not enough, depending on what that holds for you emotionally, like how important the top of that mountain peak is, because then you realize there's other mountain peaks and that's cool, but it's short lived and so it's the journey to the destination to the next journey and the process of doing it.


    The more you can love the process, like Gary V says a lot like that helps, but you also have to have something you're going for. Yeah.


    Peter: The destination is not guaranteed to people tell you that about the pandemic, right? And if it's not the pandemic, it's a wildfire and it's not that it's like all these factors external and internal are coming for us.


    So to your point, destination is not always guaranteed and not always within our control. Appreciating the journey is


    Jason: awesome. Peter, obviously people can get your book honest to greatness everywhere and anywhere. If you're watching the video, there it is again, which I love. PeterKosodoy. com slash go. Is that the best?


    Peter: Yeah, that's great. Or honesttogreatness. com will dump you into my website as well.


    Jason: That's easier to remember. Perfect. And then where are you most active online?


    Peter: I'm like the worst millennial ever, Jason. I'm like begrudgingly on all the social media, but probably Instagram.


    Jason: Instagram. Okay. And don't be ashamed of that.


    That's okay. It's fine. So Peter, thanks for being on the show. I love it. I appreciate the honesty and everything you're doing to shift this. So thank you for this.


    Peter: Thank you. Thanks for being honest.


    Jason: All right. That's it for my conversation with Peter. Hopefully you enjoyed it. Hopefully you caught all four parts.


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By Jason Cutter February 26, 2025
How Can You Predict The Future Of Sales Ops? One of the keys to sales success is to be able to predict the future – what that other person is thinking, what they might say, what they will experience, how they will feel about the product/service. But what can you do – from a sales ops leadership perspective – to predict the future in masse of all the potential customers that will flow into and out of the sales process/funnel? That is a really tough one, but it is doable. Meeting Prospective Customers Where They Are The key is to always meet the prospective customers where they are and with the experience they hope to find. It’s a common theme now in these articles because it’s important AND widely disregarded – your potential customers do not care about you, your sales team, your company, your industry. They don’t care about your stats, your testimonials, your logos. They don’t care about your mission statement or your values. They only care about themselves. They also firmly believe that there is currently unlimited choice for any product/service, which means that everything in their mind is a commodity. Easily replaceable and interchangeable. Nothing (other than iPhones…which you can only get from Apple) is special to consumers unless they feel like it should be special. Are You Still Making It All About You? There is a good chance you are still running a marketing, sales funnel that is all about you. I bet if I looked at your company’s website that from the top down it’s all about you (the company). How great you are. What you do for people. What you have done for others. I bet if I tried to speak with your sales team, I will be made to go through your process whether I like it or not. Maybe fill out a form and wait for a response. Or made to call into a toll free number, even though I don’t want to talk to someone yet. Or made to use a chat widget on a site to get started. I bet when I speak with your sales team, 70-80% of the conversation will be about them, your company, and how amazing you all believe you are. This is all fair. No one starts a company to be mediocre. The goal is to provide value and make money. The missing piece, again like I said above, is no one cares about your goals. They only care about themselves. Predicting What Customers Want From The Sales Experience Back to your mission as sales ops leader – predict what massive amounts of prospective customers are going to want from the Sales Experience. It’s why I wrote about it last week and even offered up a book for free to help in any way that I can. To succeed at your mission, you have to stay ahead of the curve of what the public, and specifically – your buying demographic, psychographic, and valuegraphics, want from that experience. Key Questions To Shape The Sales Experience Do they want to call, text, email or chat? Probably all of them…so can you offer each one? (Don’t make someone decide if they want to go through your hoops…remove all the hoops) Do they need to see pricing online – should it be available and transparent? (In most cases, yes) What sales process will be ideal for moving the most people through the sales conversation to a successful outcome? (More discovery, empathy, active listening. More front-loaded about them, not you. Use the Authentic Persuasion Pathway as your model) Who are the decision makers? Is that individual going to decide or do they need to check with others for approval? (Set them up for success, and don’t force them to make a decision in the moment – you will just lose the potential sale) What type of follow up do they want and need until they make the buying decision? What type of post-purchase follow up would go above and beyond a) their expectations and b) what others in your industry do? If there is an ‘onboarding’ stage after the sale – how can you make that actually customer centric and successful? (It is rarely both) Can You Stay Ahead of the Curve? Remember – evolution is natural. The buying public is always evolving their desired sales experience. Can you predict the future of what they want so that when they encounter your company it matches what they were hoping to find – both in the experience and the solution to their need?
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
How do you, as a sales leader, help your team become Oracles that can predict the future? [make sure to read the Selling Effectiveness article this week https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.2.25.AM ] There are five ways to facilitate their Oracle-ness. Be Present in the Moment First, you have to get your salespeople to be in the moment. The challenge that most salespeople (and…humans, for that matter) experience is they are always thinking ahead. Salespeople default to thinking about what they will say next. The next part of their script or process. The next question they want to ask so they can get through discovery. The next part of the agreement they need to discuss and review. Their mind is too busy thinking about what they are going to say and do next, that they aren’t present. As weird as it sounds, if you want to predict the future you must be present. I have said this for decades: the moment you no longer need to think about what you are going to say/do next and can actually be present with your prospect and truly listen to what they say (and don’t say) – you will become a sales professional. Master Active Listening Second is Active Listening and paying closer attention. It’s actively listening…it’s taking what I mentioned above and putting into place. First step is to be present, second is to actually listen. For what they say. For what they aren’t saying. For changes in their tone. For when they are talking to someone on the side – who are they talking to, and is it about your sales conversation? If you sell in person, reading their body language and facial expressions. You must help them develop an almost sixth sense of listening (and yes, I know hearing is one of our senses…but this goes beyond hearing…it’s truly, deeply listening). Ask Better Questions Third, is to help them ask better questions. So many people in sales ask the discovery questions they are required to ask in order to check the discovery ‘box’. Or, they have done sales long enough they know all the answers, they think they know what everyone wants and why, so no reason to even ask questions. [Note – this type of salesperson thinks two dangerous things: 1 - everyone is the same and wants the same thing, 2 – people like to be sold to.] When your team asks better, deeper discovery questions with a focus on uncovering the what and the WHY, they will get better answers. Remember this – when you ask the right questions and you listen close enough, each prospect will tell you EXACTLY how to help them buy. Build Up Experience Fourth, build up experience. If you want to predict the future it comes from enough experience to know the probability of what will happen. For example, when I am in a season of commuting from home to an office, I am the type of person that can predict exactly what will happen on the freeway. Which lane is always faster around certain exits, which lanes always slow down, how much leaving five minutes later can make the drive suck a lot more. How do I know what will happen on a freeway with hundreds and hundreds of random people? Because of experience (and the fact that most people are just going through the motions in life so they become predictable). The more experience your team has with sales scenarios, they more they can predict the future. I generally see that it takes about six months for most people in a new sales role to have seen enough scenarios where they can start to know what will come next before it happens. Trust Intuition The fifth and final trait to help them with is intuition. One definition of intuition is “a thing that one knows or considers likely from instinctive feeling rather than conscious reasoning.” It’s that feeling you get when you know something, even if you cannot explain it. It’s what Malcom Gladwell wrote about in Blink! It’s what we do very well as humans, even if we don’t listen to it. The more you can help your team tune into their intuition and listen and trust it – the better they will do in helping persuade that other human. This goes back to the first suggestion – about being present. When your team trusts they know what to do and say next and they are mentally living in the moment with that prospective client, they can let their intuition guide them. Conclusion When I do trainings, public speaking, facilitating meetings, interviews, and sales – this is my main key to success. I trust and know that I have the experience to handle whatever comes my way in the present moment, while also knowing the destination I am heading towards. I can be present, let that experience and my intuition guide me instead of getting stuck in my head and worrying about what I will say next. Get your team to do some or all of these five steps – and they will become an amazing Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
The Oracle’s Role in The Matrix If you have seen the Matrix movies, starring Keanu Reeves (as Neo), then you are familiar with an Oracle. In the movies, the Oracle knows what will happen. She has seen it, and it is predestined. In the Oracles mind there is no such thing as free will. In the first Matrix movie, Neo goes to visit her and knocks a vase off the shelf, and it hits the ground and breaks. Right before he hits it, she says “Don’t worry about the vase.” Neo says, “How did you know?” Then the Oracle responds with “What’s really going to bake your noodle later on, is would you still have broken it if I hadn’t said anything.” Becoming an Oracle in Sales Your mission as a sales professional is to be an Oracle for your prospects and clients. To know the future. Then be able to see around corners, as they say. Which means you know what is going to happen before it happens, because you have enough experience that you have become a psychic. You want to be able to predict, with amazing accuracy: What will happen next What will happen after that What issues will pop up What your prospect/client is thinking before they think it What concerns they might have before they have them Eliminating the Fear of the Unknown During your presentation/demo you want to set the expectation of what is going to occur next. Remember, humans fear the unknown. They want to avoid risk as much as possible. Your sales presentation is risky and dangerous and very unknown. They don’t know if you have good intentions or not. Are you going to persuade them? Are you going to try to manipulate them? Are you going to overcharge them? Will you actually care about what they need and want? Dealing with salespeople is so scary. Yet they still need and/or want something, so it’s the dangerous game they must mentally play. Guiding the Buyer Step by Step When you explain what you are going to do in part 1 of your process, and then what that part is done you let them know the plan for part 2, and so on – they will be at ease in the moment. They will feel like they have control over this portion, that there is an exit they can take if they don’t want to proceed. That level of control will help them accept the risk of part 1, and part 2, and part 3. Tell them what you will do. Do it. Tell them what you did. This will validate that you can be trusted. Predicting Thoughts and Feelings The next level is being able to predict what they will think and feel before they do. You can use this information in your presentation (without telling them what you are doing). You can also verbalize it, which could sound like “I am guessing from experience that you are probably wondering about _____, so let’s cover that right now.” Or “most people I speak with ask about _____.” They will think – wow this person knows what I am thinking, he/she is in my mind! And that’s a good thing. A really good thing. Conclusion The more they feel like you know what you are doing, know what they are thinking, know what they are afraid of – the more they trust you as a Guide. Because Guides only know what they know because they have helped other Heros successfully accomplish their journeys. Your mission as a sales professional: Become an Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
What does it take to build the ideal Sales Experience? Why does it even matter? Maybe you think you already have one. You are a professional sales ops leader. You have put everything you can in place to help your salespeople sell more. You have optimized the processes so that your sales team can focus on one thing – selling. But I promise – even if you think all of that is true, it’s not. The Reality: No Perfect Sales Experience Exists I have never seen any company or team with the ‘ideal’ Sales Experience and operation. And to be honest – I have never built one successfully. Why would I admit that? Because the ideal Sales Experience is aspirational and business, teams, processes, and customer needs/desires are constantly changing. So as soon as you put new processes in place, something else needs to change and evolve. The Scalable Sales Success Iceberg In my Scalable Sales Success Iceberg – there are 24 categories that, when built out, create a scalable sales machine – where you can add in an input and get way more output. I would love to see companies have all 24 categories set up and running optimally. But that’s not even possible – because, as I mentioned, things are always changing. Focusing on the Biggest Levers Here is the key – to build the ideal Sales Experience takes focus on the biggest levers. The ones that, when pulled, create the biggest and best results. There are many processes and systems that you can put in place – but those are going to get you a few percentage points of improvement. Instead of putting it all in here, I want to make you a special offer. Email me at jason@sellingeffectiveness.com with your mailing address, and I will mail you the book that I co-wrote with Nick Glimsdahl called Reasons Not To Focus On The Sales Experience. It will be your starter guide, facilitating the creation of your ideal Sales Experience.
By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
By Jason Cutter February 17, 2025
The Abundance of Options Today we all have lots of options. While writing this I could speak into my phone and order whatever I want. I can get food delivered before I finish writing this article. I could get a TV delivered to my door before I wake up tomorrow. When someone wants to buy something, they are armed with as much information as they want to access. They can research, read reviews, and watch videos about a product or company. The Shift in Power to the Buyer Because of this, the power balance of sales has shifted away from the salesperson and company to the buyer. Knowledge is power – and they now have all the knowledge they want. With knowing that they have ultimate choice of what to buy (internet and globalization has led to the ability to order anything you want from anywhere…so you are no longer limited to the stores you can drive to and what they have on hand), it means that everything is a commodity in their minds. Nothing is unique or special. Everything is interchangeable. Does the Sales Experience Even Matter? So, this means the sales experience doesn’t matter anymore. There is no reason to put effort into the sales process, the conversations with potential customers. No value in spending time trying to ‘help’ people – since they just view products, salespeople, and companies as interchangeable. You are not special, so there is no benefit in caring. They will walk into your store, and they will decide what they want. They fill out your online for, and they decide if they answer when you call and how the call will go. They walk up to your event/booth, and they decide how the interaction will go and if they want to listen to your elevator pitch. They will let you know if they are interested in moving forward. They will let you know how they want to buy. So, like I said above, there is no real value anymore in the sales experience. Or could it actually be valuable? Is it possible that all that matters IS the sales experience? If people feel they have ultimate information and control of the buying process, how do they decide on what to buy and who to buy from? When I search on Amazon for a product type I have never purchased before, how do I pick? When I want to go shopping for garden supplies for the house, how do I pick where to go? When I need to buy a new fridge, who will I hand my money over to? The cheapest place with terrible service? The place with reasonable prices and great service? The Sales Experience Shapes the Decision I choose based on the sales experience that I will receive. With everything else being equal, I (and I believe most people) will select the place to shop at or the products to buy online based on the experience I receive. To me all that matters is the experience. While I am trying to buy something. Once I receive it – ensure it does what I need it to do. With the feeling of unlimited choices, it can actually be harder now to buy something that in the past. People get into analysis paralysis more often. Which means that for consumers to buy something new they need help. They need a professional salesperson. They need a sales experience that matches their expectations. They want a guide who will help them make the right decision for them, with an experience that goes above and beyond what more people receive any more when they walk into a store, call a company’s toll-free number, or visit a website and have to fill out a form. If you want to succeed in sales – the only thing that matters is the sales experience you provide.
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