E115: Social Dynamic Selling with Rylee Meek – Part 3 of 3

January 3, 2024


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This is part three of the conversation I had with Rylee. 

In Part 3, Rylee and I talk about:



  • What top salespeople do
  • The right ego
  • What unsuccessful sales reps do/don’t do
  • ROI of efforts


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Rylee’s Info:


Rylee Meek is the founder and CEO of the Social Dynamic Selling System, which turns dinner seminar marketing into a science. After responding to a small ad on Craigslist in 2009, Rylee was introduced to a new concept of selling, one in which radically changed his life forever. Having just $673 in his bank account, but more importantly a burning desire for more, Rylee went on to produce over $80 million in sales over the past 8 years. Now that he has perfected his model, through continual trial and error, he is sharing this learned wisdom and is on a mission to help other entrepreneurs and business owners achieve the revenue goals they have to live the lifestyle they desire. Everything he teaches is tried, tested, refined, and proven to create a predictable, sustainable, and scalable selling system.

His Website: http://socialdynamicselling.com/

Also: www.WorkWithRylee.com

Social Dynamic Selling eBook: 
http://pfsbuilt.com/socialdynamicselling/#

LinkedIn: 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/rylee-meek-1556a919/

Facebook: 
https://m.facebook.com/TheRyleeMeek

Twitter: 
https://twitter.com/ryleemeek

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  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back to The Sales Experience Podcast. My name is Jason Cutter. Welcome to part three of my special guest episode with Rylee Meek. So glad that you’re here. I was so excited to have him. He was the first guest for the new season of the podcast, season two and had lots of goals about asking him questions, which I kind of went into but in my excitement and in the flow of the conversation didn’t necessarily go as planned, but you’ll check that out here if you didn’t listen to it. Make sure to check out the first two episodes where we talked about his social dynamic selling, what that looks like, how he operates, what he does with the meetings, the face to face group kind of presentation, sales process that he’s developed and then how that works with relational sales and you know where the focus is and what’s effective and what’s not.


    Jason: So make sure to check out those first two parts. If you want to see his links and information which he’s going to put at the end of the show here in this final segment or if you want to read his bio or the transcript for the show, make sure to go to CutterConsultingGroup.com/podcast and find that there and enjoy this final part.


    Rylee: Absolutely. I see that a lot, especially with new younger sales reps. They want to educate them on everything and make them think how great they are, but really you just got to keep it simple and just deliver the information that you know your manager has delivered because obviously they have a system that works and I think that’s important for new sales reps to not overcomplicate things and just if there’s a system that works, stick to the system and don’t try to yes


    Jason: And ride that fine line of how much do you have to share because what happens, and this is the knee jerk reaction is I just got off a phone call or a client visit or a home visit or something like that. Somebody asks me a question, I didn’t really have a great answer for it. They decided not to buy. Now I’m thinking, okay, the next call I go into, I’m going to have to tackle that objection before it comes up because I don’t want to be, you know, kicked in the stomach on the next one. But it turns out like the next person doesn’t care. And I call it rebutting with yourself. Whereas now you bring up this objection that they didn’t even have that. Now they’re thinking about and now they’re freaked out and then you’re just perpetuating the cycle. And so that’s, you know, again, like you said, best advice if you’re a company or manager has a good system or if you’re a manager and you’re developing a good system, you know, just follow that, do that. And work within that system for sure.


    Rylee: Yup. Absolutely.


    Jason: So the next question, which you already answered in that one is what do in your experience at top sales reps do? And what I heard you say, which is great, which is follow a system, follow a process that either you’ve created as a sales professional or your company is handing you as the blueprint and the playbook. And then after each interaction detailing and noting whatever issues, questions, objections came up either how do you have a better response for them next time? How do you proactive, we deal with them in advance in your presentation so they don’t come up. Some of the top reps I’ve ever seen do that. Like literally they’re digesting every single conversation and then figuring out what did they miss, what can they improve on?


    Rylee: So yeah, absolutely, absolutely. Cause there’s, there’s nothing more frustrating than even when you have an amazing sales and then you have no clue why it went amazing. Like you only know that if you’re consciously aware or taking notes after bad sales calls, good sales calls and being able to have your flow and have it be consistent throughout.


    Jason: Yeah. And that’s funny too because a lot of times people think for myself, if I’m coaching sales reps or working with a team is that my focus is just on the negative. It’s like, why didn’t that work? Why weren’t you successful? Like what happened? Let’s listen to that call. I just like you just said, which is awesome, is I also take the winning calls, like if it’s recorded or if there’s a, you know, if they’re, you know, watching it is you close the sale, what did you do? What worked, why was that successful? Now do that because if you don’t get a sale, potentially there’s infinite number of reasons why you didn’t. If you did get the sale, then we know there was certain things that you did or didn’t do that actually worked.


    Jason: And so, you know, how do you do that again? Just keep doing what works. Right. And so, uh, that’s cool. I very rarely ever hear anybody else talk about, okay, focus on when it works. Just keep doing that, right? Yeah.


    Rylee: Yup. Absolutely.


    Jason: Now the next question is what do, in your experience, what do unsuccessful reps do? Beyond what we’ve just talked about, you know, what do you see them do that you know they could avoid or they shouldn’t do?


    Rylee: Yeah, I think, and kind of mentioned this too is when we’re hiring new people on in the system is it’s a proven system. It’s just, if you say these words and how I say it, not only just the words but the tonality is a big thing, but if you stick with that in it and it works, why would you go try to change it?


    Rylee: It’s extremely frustrating with new reps who they come in and they’ve got their own ideas. I appreciate it. I can appreciate like I get it, you’re trying to help you have your own ideas, but the system may be broken and sometimes it’s hard for them to just accept that and that if you just keep it simple and do what the successful people are doing, you will be successful. If you veer from that or you know, go off track of that, you’re not going to be successful. And so I think that’s a big thing. And probably the most frustrating thing for any sales manager or a trainer that we run into. And you know, with all of my companies, it’s like that’s the most common, most frustrating thing when we’re recruiting and trying to hire.


    Jason: Yeah, I will second that in a big way. Is that generally where reps will go sideways if they’re going to go sideways in any one general way for where their performance is either going to drop up or never be achieved is where they’re not trusting the system. And there’s unhealthy ego in the way of them being open to it. Right?


    Jason: There’s a good ego, which is like, you know, I’m gonna do well and you know, confidence in yourself. And then there’s an ego that gets in the way of understanding and using somebody else’s playbook and system. And usually they either figure that out or it’s going to be a fairly quick exit.


    Rylee: Right. For sure.


    Jason: So then that goes into the next one here, which is, you know, the last question is, is when hiring salespeople, what attributes are you looking for? Obviously them being open to your system. Although in my experience, nobody goes into an interview as a sales rep and says, well, at my last company, here’s what I did and I’m not gonna use your script and I’m not going to use your process.


    Jason: So nobody’s ever entered an interview with me saying that. So what attributes are you looking for? For somebody listening who’s getting into sales or they’re in sales? Like what is it that you see that you’re looking for that makes them successful?


    Rylee: Yeah, this is funny because my managers that we work with, we’re, we’re in a big recruiting phase right now with some clients that I’m working with. And this has been like a huge topic because you know, we’ve hired recruiters that are looking for a specific person. We’ve done our own ads and at the end of it, I mean all of them, most all of our sales reps that we work with, they’re all 100% commission on commission sales reps. I love that. That’s all I’ve ever done. But I think a big thing that I make apparent when my interviewing process is that, you know, we’re a family, we’re, we’re a tight knit group of people.


    Rylee: But as I mentioned before, it’s like you’ve got to be able to own your own business within your business and, and treat it that way. And if you don’t, I’m not going to spend time with those that don’t. And I make it very apparent too. It’s like, you know, the squeaky wheel always gets the grease. And if I’m hiring an in training on a new rep and they’re, let’s say they’re not performing and they’re not calling me with, why didn’t I make the sale? If they’re not making those notes, if they’re not, you know, asking for help, then I’m just don’t have the time to, to help those. And it is, it’s going to be a quick exit as well. But just being real with them that, you know, we communicate a lot through different like apps and things because as, as sales reps just on the road, if you’re, you know, we’re all over the country and we’ve got, you know, most everybody was working out of their home and then they’re traveling a couple of days a week doing presentations.


    Rylee: And I think it’s important to have that, that tight knit group of communicating, knowing that you’re not on your own. Yes, you’re on your own but you’re not on your own. Like I said, just being real with them. I remember one of my first sales jobs, I was 19 years old in the recruiter, the manager at the time just looked me square in the eyes and said, dude, 85% of this job is negative, but the 15% if you can focus on the 15% you will get rich doing this. And rich for me at that time was being able to make up, you know, six figures and it was like, that’s all I needed to hear. He knew the system. He taught me how to do sales and you know, I believed him and I didn’t care if I went on, if I knocked 85 doors that all said no.


    Rylee: I knew the next 15 were yeses. And I think being able to have that psyche of the sales rep of just knowing there’s highs and lows, but if you can just focus on those positives, that’s going to be one of the most important attributes of somebody that I’m looking to hire and train.


    Jason: Yeah, and I think that’s huge because obviously there’s a bunch of nos in that. Obviously that depends on the marketing and what you’re doing. If you’re door knocking, there’s going to be a lot of nos. If you’re doing a presentation in front of a group like you’re talking about, it’s going to be less knows because there’s a lot of intent. They got a letter and then they responded. Then they booked it and they showed up. They actually left their house and you know, there’s a lot of intense. So the conversion and the nos are a little bit different.


    Jason: However, no matter what, no matter what industry somebody’s in, within sales, there’s a formula which says if I do so many of “X”, that’s how men, I’ll get so many sales. And that’s the right ratio. And in that there’s always some level of nos. And even if it’s not a quantity of nos, like quality, if it’s less interactions and the nose can hurt more when it’s like I met with four people and two of them said, no, it’s different than knocking on a hundred doors and hearing 85 no’s or you know, getting it slammed in your face. You know, sometimes you know, less knows, but quality knows hurt more. And so that’s the key, right? Is this being persistent and understanding. Like if you’re trying to help people or if you’re selling something of value that you know, it’s just, you know, get to the right people and then you know, do what you can.


    Rylee: Yeah, absolutely. It’s good stuff, man. That’s awesome.


    Jason: So that’s it for my questions and I’m so glad you’re here. Before we wrap this up for everyone listening, I’m going to put in all of your links, all of your information into the show notes. People can go to CutterConsultingGroup.com and find it there. You can go on LinkedIn and find the show as well, but just so they can have it now as people are listening, where can people find you and or your system or find out more if they’re interested in either being a part of what you’re doing or you know as a client.


    Rylee: Yeah, absolutely. So the easiest area would probably just be our website, which is social dynamic selling.com. Again, social dynamic selling.com we’ve got some good content up there. We have some case studies of clients that we’ve recently taken on with like how many campaigns we’ve done and you know, a volume dollar amounts, things like that.


    Rylee: What their ROI was. Oh, you can download our journey map, which is basically six basic kind of modules I guess we’ll call them. Um, that I take people through with setting up their own campaigns. I’ve got a website. I also WorkWithRylee.com and Rylee’s spelled a little different. R Y. L. E. E. so WorkWithRylee.com and you can schedule like little strategy calls and if you’re questioning like would this model work for me or not? Or I have this idea, just schedule a call and one of my myself or one of our team members will hop on and we’ll spend you know, 15-20 minutes with you and be able to give you a good idea if this would make sense or not. And again, if it’s not, we’ll be the first ones to tell you or at least be able to direct you and put you in the right direction to maybe have a better sales model for what you’re looking for.


    Jason: Perfect. And again, like I said, I’m going to put all of Rylee’s links into the show notes, plus the transcript will be there. Rylee, thanks again for being on the show and being the first guest in season two to be a part of this.


    Rylee: Yeah, it’s been an honor. I appreciate it, Jason. Thank you much, man.


    Jason: Alright. And for everyone tuning in again, make sure, check out everything online and leave it the same way I did in season one…


    Jason: As always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.


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By Jason Cutter February 26, 2025
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By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
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By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
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By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
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By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
By Jason Cutter February 17, 2025
The Abundance of Options Today we all have lots of options. While writing this I could speak into my phone and order whatever I want. I can get food delivered before I finish writing this article. I could get a TV delivered to my door before I wake up tomorrow. When someone wants to buy something, they are armed with as much information as they want to access. They can research, read reviews, and watch videos about a product or company. The Shift in Power to the Buyer Because of this, the power balance of sales has shifted away from the salesperson and company to the buyer. Knowledge is power – and they now have all the knowledge they want. With knowing that they have ultimate choice of what to buy (internet and globalization has led to the ability to order anything you want from anywhere…so you are no longer limited to the stores you can drive to and what they have on hand), it means that everything is a commodity in their minds. Nothing is unique or special. Everything is interchangeable. Does the Sales Experience Even Matter? So, this means the sales experience doesn’t matter anymore. There is no reason to put effort into the sales process, the conversations with potential customers. No value in spending time trying to ‘help’ people – since they just view products, salespeople, and companies as interchangeable. You are not special, so there is no benefit in caring. They will walk into your store, and they will decide what they want. They fill out your online for, and they decide if they answer when you call and how the call will go. They walk up to your event/booth, and they decide how the interaction will go and if they want to listen to your elevator pitch. They will let you know if they are interested in moving forward. They will let you know how they want to buy. So, like I said above, there is no real value anymore in the sales experience. Or could it actually be valuable? Is it possible that all that matters IS the sales experience? If people feel they have ultimate information and control of the buying process, how do they decide on what to buy and who to buy from? When I search on Amazon for a product type I have never purchased before, how do I pick? When I want to go shopping for garden supplies for the house, how do I pick where to go? When I need to buy a new fridge, who will I hand my money over to? The cheapest place with terrible service? The place with reasonable prices and great service? The Sales Experience Shapes the Decision I choose based on the sales experience that I will receive. With everything else being equal, I (and I believe most people) will select the place to shop at or the products to buy online based on the experience I receive. To me all that matters is the experience. While I am trying to buy something. Once I receive it – ensure it does what I need it to do. With the feeling of unlimited choices, it can actually be harder now to buy something that in the past. People get into analysis paralysis more often. Which means that for consumers to buy something new they need help. They need a professional salesperson. They need a sales experience that matches their expectations. They want a guide who will help them make the right decision for them, with an experience that goes above and beyond what more people receive any more when they walk into a store, call a company’s toll-free number, or visit a website and have to fill out a form. If you want to succeed in sales – the only thing that matters is the sales experience you provide.
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