E159: Selling The One Thing Everyone Needs with Jamie Sarche – Part 4 of 4

January 5, 2024


How important do you think it is to have conversations about end-of-life care before they become necessary?


This is the final segment of the conversation I had with Jamie. 


In Part 4, Jamie and I talk about:

  • Success is all about intentions
  • Just because you’re selling pre-planning for death doesn’t make you the Grim Reaper
  • Recruiting the right sales people
  • Separating yourself by caring about your prospects
  • Providing differentiating value



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Jamie’s Bio:

My calling is helping people be less afraid of death. By helping them to provide their loved ones with a planned and funded funeral or memorial service, they create a path for bereavement, long before it’s needed. Truly, I help people live a better, more meaningful life. 

A seasoned speaker, I bring deep experience in death care to a broad range of audiences around the country, sharing insights and approaches on how to have those difficult conversations and how to address sensitive issues. Extending well beyond death and dying, my message resonates across industries and individuals, bridging my passion to demystify death while enlightening communicators on overcoming challenging conversations.


Her Links & Contact Info:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-sarche/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamie_sarche
Phone: 720-403-6772
Email: 
Jamie@feldmanmortuary.com

Interesting Videos of Jamie:

More video: https://elitalks.org/death-rituals-creating-jewish-life

  • Show Transcript

    Jason: Welcome back to the sales experience podcast. I’m so glad that you’re here. This is the final part of my conversation with Jamie Sarche and it’s been such an interesting one in thinking about it. When we had this conversation, it was just so fascinating and all over the place. I tried many times to bring it back into sales, but then I know I was getting distracted talking about her industry and how that works and and just you know the thought process that goes into it. But I love and appreciate how much she is focused on doing sales the right way and doing it  really different than anything else and if you haven’t listened to the first three parts, it’s very important because it’s one continuous conversation. We have a yes, you can get some information from the standalone episode, but listen to the other ones. She’s so fascinating. And then she has her links at the end of this, but you can also get them on the website, make sure to reach out to her, follow her online, get in touch with her if you want. You know, she posts some interesting content both around the pre-planning for you know, the inevitable death that’s going to happen as well as just sales and relationship stuff. So she’s very fascinated. Make sure to follow her here is part four.


    Jamie: And so sometimes being able to separate that, who I am from what I do, sometimes it gets a little bit more difficult to do that. And so then I have to just be able to think about it. And again, I’ve been doing this long enough, then I know how to talk to myself about it and how to get back out of that idea that I am responsible for how they respond.


    Jason: And for me, what I’ve always found is the key part that I focus on is my intentions, right? So my intentions are positive. I’m trying to help somebody then if they don’t react positively, but I know my intentions and my heart is in the right place and I’m not being an ass right like I am and there’s not a bad tone, it’s nothing I did on my side. Then I step back and always say and remind myself that if they’re acting like that, it’s because of something else going on in their life. And fundamentally everybody has something going on in their life at any moment. There’s some kind of storm, some kind of problems, some kind of thing they’re going through. And so their reaction to the outside world, if my intentions are good, that’s not about me. That’s about what they’re dealing with. And I could totally see that in your case because we’re calling as the grim Reaper because if somebody doesn’t sign up with you, then they see you in some way as that grim Reaper who just wants to talk about death and make them realize it. And so I could see that terrible timing, you know, just by chance where you’re calling there at the doctor’s office. And then there’s like, I have to see the cardiologist, he’s probably got bad news for me. And then here’s the bringer of death calling me and wants to sell me some stuff.


    Jamie: And even sometimes they’ll think like that. The hospital called me to tell me to call them, which is interesting. And I’ve started, you know, in the last couple of years, maybe even just in the last year, I’ve started to just so much on that to say, Oh my God, I hate when this happens. You know, I can’t possibly know where you are, but wow, it really just is terrible timing. I’m so sorry. And I just kind of own that. And then they go, well, how could, you know where I was and one that’s better.


    Jason: And I think that’s important for all sales people to understand and, and roll with them. I work with a lot of reps who don’t kind of flow with that kind of conversation. They get, you know, confronted with something by a prospect and, you know, they’re like, I don’t know how to react. I’m like, just react like a normal person. Just have the conversation and just address whatever it is that they’re accusing you of or thinking that you did or didn’t do. And uh, you know, like you said, how could you have known, you know, and I could just see you literally saying like, yeah, I mean it’s not like I’m tapped into the security cameras at the hospital, you know, calling people as they’re walking in. Like, however that would be a good business model, maybe I should check it out and then just make light of it. And then they realized, yeah, that’s probably not the case. Like this is, I’m being crazy.


    Jamie: Yeah. And the other thing that, you know, I faced, and I’m sure every salesperson does face this, is people who answer their phone and they shouldn’t have answered their phone. And then they’re mad at us that they answered their phone. You know, when you’re in a, they’ll say, Oh, I’m in a meeting right now. And I think, well, that’s what voicemail is for. Why didn’t you just send me there? But you know, we’ve got to deal with it.


    Jason: Yeah. And then, uh, set up a better time to talk and then just keep rolling with it. Yeah. That’s interesting. So now, do you have anyone on your team that you work with or are you pretty much just by yourself?


    Jamie: So I’m very deeply connected with all of the funeral directors here. So we’re all a team. But I am the only person who does Prairie ranch funeral planning. Pierre and I have had a number of people who I’ve tried to bring in to do this with me. And it’s just never, it’s never worked for me. I’m not sure why I’m not a great manager. I really own that, that I, I am not a great manager. And so the other thing that I kind of have an expectation that if somebody wants to do this work, they would have the same passion that I have about it. And I haven’t found that person yet.


    Jason: Yeah. And I could see that being challenging. And I know from managing and leading recruiting, hiring salespeople for a long time, that is always a struggle, which is to find somebody who cares or will do it a certain way and not even the way that it has to be done, but with the right intent, with the right goals, and ask the right questions and uncover the right things and then you know, address those concerns and do it in a sensitive manner. And then obviously with your line of work, in my mind it’s even more extreme. Right? So you’re not just helping somebody buy something or sign up for service. We’re talking about something very sensitive, like you said, that’s taboo that people don’t like talking about yet. It’s one common thing for everybody and yeah, I could see that being difficult on the recruiting side and getting somebody that you know feels the same way


    Jamie: Exactly. And can interact with people in that kind of way. Recently we hired someone who’s a director of outreach and she does more kind of at need stuff. So she’s with nursing homes and hospices. I’m typically working with people decades before death. She would be, you know, kind of helping people to understand that we are available for when people are gonna die soon. But, um, she’s really the first person I’ve worked with that I can, I feel like I can trust so deeply that she gets it on such a deep level that I feel like she’ll go out to networking events and kind of represent me, which I’ve never allowed before. And it’s just something about who she is and I feel really lucky to have found that.


    Jason: Now have you thought about training or teaching, coaching, anybody else in other markets that are doing this?


    Jamie: Yeah, I have and I would actually really like to do that. I have been a speaker at the IFCCA conference in Las Vegas, which is the, I think, international funeral, cremation and cemetery association. So I was a speaker last year and I’m going to be a speaker again. I have trained people at an insurance company for the marketing people. Um, but I really would like to do that. And my funeral home owner has asked me not to do it in the Denver market, which I respect completely yet. But I really would like to do that. And I do think that what I’m doing is really so much better for the funeral business and for people. You know, one of the things that I see in the funeral business is really a fight to the bottom, a race to the bottom that we’ve really commodified the work that we do. And I see that as a huge mistake, you know, for the people we serve. And certainly for the business as a whole, you know, if, if it’s just about picking up the body and burning it, anybody could do that. And when it’s about caring for people and helping them to get their needs met and helping them to understand what needs are, I think that we can really do so much more for people. And I’m not sure that my industry is doing that.


    Jason: Yeah. Well. So for anybody who might be listening, obviously that’s in the same industry and wants your assistance, sounds like you would be a great resource and that could be a fun match. But I got to say like if anyone was looking at me right now or a couple of minutes ago when you were talking, I was literally like laughing because I guess I’m still, even at this point in my life, I’m still surprised at the different types of associations, groups and then conferences and expos that are out there as you’re talking about this international association of funeral and cremation centers. I’m just like, Oh my God, there’s something.


    Jamie: Yeah. But you know what’s funny, I was talking to somebody yesterday and she was saying, you know, death is really on trend right now and that, yeah, and I don’t know if you’re paying attention to this, but like two days ago there was an article in the Washington post about green burial and at the same time there was something going around LinkedIn about the funding that these people who are doing grief support just got, there’s a whole new thing in Washington state that there’s literally body composting and I think that’s going to become legal in Colorado. In fact, I’m trying to work to make it legal in Colorado that’s happening right now. So there really is a lot of talk. I think that we are experiencing a little shift culturally in kind of embracing the fact that death is part of life.


    Jason: And how much of that do you think is just this large population of baby boomers who are now dealing with it and they’re also part of a generation that’s also connected also online also, you know, not like where let’s say when I was a kid, my grandparents, great grandparents, so disconnected from other generations. Whereas the baby boomers, there’s a lot of them that are connected. They’re online. They’re a part of so much.


    Jamie: No, I don’t know. I do just think that there a lot of shifting happening culturally and you know, one of the things that we’re seeing a lot of is that people are not connected religiously and so they’re trying to figure out some things how to do those things that religious communities would have taken care of and they don’t have that anymore. Which is also why I think that we don’t have a lot of ritual anymore. You know, ritual is certainly a big important part of religion, but it’s something separate as well and we need it. It really isn’t about God. It really is about how we walk through these kinds of milestones.


    Jason: Yeah. And I, and I think one of the other rituals that’s really missing is the coming of age teenager becoming an adult. You know, where in some religions there’s a big passage and a Rite of passage and a ceremony that goes with that. And there’s just not that same thing like we’ve had, you know, for so long religion or not, right. I mean there’s tribal societies where they do that religious, but it’s that ceremony, it’s that tradition, it’s that Rite of passage. And so then you’ve got one at the end of life as well.


    Jamie: That’s right. I don’t know how if you wouldn’t have children or how old they are, but when my kids were driving, learning to drive, they did this thing called master drive. And that was one of the things that this organization really focuses on is that learning to drive and becoming a driver is a huge Rite of passage and we need to treat it in that way. And I thought that was so smart. You know, it just, it does help us to grow, to have those rites of passage.


    Jason: I remember that as a kid. I mean that was a huge deal. Driver’s training, drivers, education, and then you know, back in the day getting my license on my 16th birthday, the MV and you know what that meant as a milestone.


    Jamie: Yeah. So we need to embrace those milestones. They really are helpful in helping us connect with our own lives.


    Jason: Yeah. Well Jamie, I appreciate you being on here. This is definitely in the top of the most fascinating topics and for salespeople, listening, managers, owners, obviously we talked about some sales stuff. There’s a lot of value in there and then it’s just a fascinating topic that I love sharing and sharing your message about helping people understand it and break that down. Where is the best place? I’ll put all the links in the show notes on the website for you, but like where’s the best place for now if they’re listening to it where somebody can find you, what do you want them to find online or connected with you?


    Jamie: So absolutely they should connect with me on LinkedIn and I’ve got a lot of videos there. I would love for them to email me. My email is jamie@feldmanmortuary.com and they’re welcome to call me too if they want and it’s (720) 404-6772 I really look forward to connecting and I’m so grateful for you having me on this podcast and it’s so fun to talk about and I really appreciate the spirit in which you talk about this too. Thank you.


    Jason: Well thanks Jamie. And seriously for anyone listening to this, if you’re in this industry, obviously reach out to her if you’re dealing with sales. I mean she knows a lot of stuff about sales and a lot of interesting things so, but again, thank you for being on the show and uh, and talking about this, the sensitive but necessary sales topic.


    Jamie: Absolutely. Thanks.


    Jason: And for everyone listening, make sure to go to the cutterconsultinggroup.com website and go to podcasts. You can find the transcript for our conversation, all of Jamie’s links that you can also reach out to me and chat if you want to talk about sales. And as always, keep in mind that everything in life is sales and people remember the experience you gave them.




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By Jason Cutter August 27, 2025
Most businesses struggle to grow their sales teams. At some point, they give up on looking for rock stars; they just need a team that shows up every day. In fact, research shows that 52% of sales leaders list recruiting as 'very challenging,' and average sales rep turnover hovers around 26% annually. That means for many leaders, the hiring process feels like a revolving door of wasted time, lost revenue, and constant stress. Here’s how to achieve scalable hiring results without having a massive hiring team and a huge job marketing budget. What Most Companies Do They need to hire salespeople. Maybe it’s one. Maybe it’s their very first salesperson. Maybe they need 10 more. So they: Write a job post about all the things the job involves and who they are looking for, and the type of experience they feel is important Put it on Indeed and/or LinkedIn They get hundreds and hundreds of applications They freak out – stressed at the thought of going through all those submissions They have someone on the team spend hours/days going through all the submissions. Have them call and email everyone whose resume fits what they think they want. A few people respond. So they call again, to ‘check in’ on the candidates to try and get more to respond. If that works, they have dozens and dozens of candidates ready for the first interview. Someone has to then take a week’s worth of time blocks away from their actual job to do first interviews. Most of the candidates don’t show up to the call/meeting. A few candidates make it through to the second interview. The boss or sales manager takes these. Two out of the three show up. Offers are sent to the two. 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They default to old-school business thinking that the only way to hire is to just get experienced salespeople to join the team. But there is a better way. I have spent over 15 years being tasked with keeping teams filled with salespeople. Whether it was for inside sales in a call center environment or work from home, to retail environments, from consumer products and services to B2B, from within the United States to offshore, this framework works, even if you have failed in the past to try and scale your hiring efforts. In working with small and large teams, the key is the balance of quality and quantity. Humans will always surprise you. I have seen the ideal candidate – on paper – be completely ineffective in the role. I have seen reps with very little experience, whom we took a chance on, completely outsell their experienced co-workers. The experience of everything that goes into hiring over 800 salespeople, this framework is designed to help you succeed no matter the size of your hiring team. Here’s how to create a scalable hiring process that doesn’t require a large recruiting team and without losing your mind wasting time on candidates that aren’t a good fit. Step 1: Hire Traits, Not Just Resumes Did you know there are three different types of salespeople? The Newbie, The Entrepreneur, The Sales Veteran (email me, and I will send you the ebook that breaks them down). First, make sure you know what you need on the team, who you have the bandwidth to train, and if you need someone that follows your playbook (do you even have one?) pretty much exactly, or are you okay with them just ‘doing what they do best’ without much structure? Next, you need to figure out the mindset traits you find most successful. A business friend of mine, a long time ago, taught me: “Hire the smile, train the skill.” Given enough time and patience, you can teach anyone how to do anything. But it's really hard to teach someone a different mindset. Most people are who they are when they are applying to be a part of your company. Here is my list, in order, of mindsets that I know are successful for sales (in any sales role, any industry, any company): This aligns with broader studies: while past performance can matter, attitude and coachability are consistently ranked as stronger predictors of sustained success. Leaders who over-prioritize experience often miss the hidden talent right in front of them. Openness Curiosity Creativity Persistence Authenticity As I tell my clients, most leaders think they just need more reps who are ‘persistent’. They blame a lack of sales results on the team not asking for the sale enough or doing enough follow-up. The problem with biasing the screening process for persistence is that if you don’t care about the other traits, you will end up with a team full of persistent assholes who don’t listen to you or their prospects, don’t care to learn anything new, and don’t try to come up with new ways to move people to the close. They just see every prospect as a nail and sales is a giant hammer in their hand, where if they can just hit enough nails hard enough, they will win. [Don’t believe me? Ever heard the phrase ‘sales is just a numbers game’? That is this mindset in action.] The last part you want to define is what type of company culture you have and what personality is a good fit? Is it a fun environment? Does everyone like to joke around? Is it all serious and focused? Is it mission-driven? Do you actually have defined, stated core values that you care about? The answers to these questions will help you determine culture fit. One area that organizations will fall short in their selection process is ignoring culture fit and just wanting people with certain experiences on their resume or skills to help sell more widgets. If not careful, it can lead to bringing someone on board who might be an excellent, technical salesperson (meaning…technically they can do the job), but they are a not a good fit for the team. “The best reps don’t just sell your product — they sell it your way.” It’s not enough to just hire for experience; you need team players. Step 2: Treat Recruiting Like a Sales Funnel Now that you know who is open to bringing on board, what that winning combination could look like, it’s time to start building the hiring process. In sales, the initial key to success is attracting the right leads into your funnel. This is the job of marketing. Not just in the steps they take, but the messages they put out there to the world. Like fishing, putting out a hook with bait on it where the right fish that is interested will want to take that bait. Marketing should be doing the same thing for your revops. Your hiring team should be doing the same thing with the job posts and the hiring process. Your goal is to write a job post, like your marketing team writes their content, in a way that your ideal candidate would read it and say “holy crap, that is me!” Part 2 is to build in some hoops. One area that I see pretty much every organization fail at is building and managing candidate lead flow. They put a job post out there, get a shit ton of candidates, go from excited ( “We have so many candidates, we will definitely find all the reps we need!” ) to despair ( “How the hell are we going to get through all these resumes, and then what about all the interviews?” ). So many orgs are not ready for the flood of applicants. And did they even want that many applicants? If you haven’t noticed…recruiting is like sales. Well, to be specific, everything in life is sales, and selling, and persuasion. So building a recruiting process is like building a sales process. Sales teams think it would be great to be flooded with leads until it happens, and so much potential business falls through the cracks of inefficiencies and bandwidth limitations. This is why we want to put in a) hoops and b) templates for our hiring process. Let’s start with hoops. Think about it: in sales, 63% of managers admit their teams do a poor job managing the sales pipeline. If you can’t expect discipline in pipeline follow-up from a candidate during the hiring process, you certainly can’t expect it once they’re in the field. The hoops should be similar to what your prospects have to go through to become a customer. The logic is that your salespeople will run that process with their prospects, so you need to identify those sales reps who are naturally built for it. 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This is how you filter out the people who are not open/curious (remember, my top two sales success mindset traits above) – because they will decline your requirement to memorize the script. Or they will take the script, say they will work on it, and then disappear into the wind, never to be heard from again. And…that is the perfect result. I promise, no matter what fantastic story they spun on their resume or tried to present to you in the interview…their resistance to this step is all you need to know. Truly. The ones who say, “ Sure, sounds good, I will memorize this and get back to you, ” are the ones you want. Not because they are actually good at memorizing things – because I know I am terrible at it – but because they are willing to do it. A tiger can’t change its stripes. Is it a short sales cycle or a long one? If it is more than a one-call close, then you want to put hoops into your process that will help differentiate the short-term commitment versus long-term commitment people. Some salespeople out there are just too impatient to handle making follow-up calls, delays by stakeholders, and rejection after long sales cycles. They need immediate gratification. (and here is a contrarian thought…they are probably also single…because how someone is with work, they are in their life. If they can’t handle long sales cycles and long-term relationship building in a sales role, they probably aren’t very good at it in their personal life. And that’s okay…there is nothing wrong with that mode. The question is – is that what fits your sales cycle/length/mode? If you need reps who can do more than build enough rapport to sell someone something in the next 20 minutes before never seeing them again, then filter those people out by adding layers to your hiring process that extend the length. Now, I am not saying that if your sales cycle takes an average of six months, that your hiring process should do the same, but it should be relatively long. Definitely don’t interview people and then have them start the following Monday. Is there a lot of follow-up in your sales process? Do you expect your team to actually manage their pipeline of valuable leads to ensure they close? Then you want to build in a hoop that requires candidates to follow up with you. We want to test them on how well they will treat their future sales pipeline. If they won’t even follow up with you on their progress in the process, then they aren’t the type of salesperson who will follow up on their own leads. Or, they just don’t care that much about this job. Either way, this is a perfect filter to remove those candidates from your pipeline. If you want my ultimate filter process/scripting for this hoop – email me with the subject “ candidate follow up, ” and I will send you what I have done to successfully apply this filter. While that might look like a lot of hoops and processes to build out, it doesn’t take much to both eliminate the candidates who are not a good fit and allow the ones who are to raise their hand so you can pick them. Remember, no matter how desperate you may feel you are – needing to fill your sales team today, it’s never worth bringing on bad hires, especially in a sales role. The cost of their onboarding, training, combined with the cost to your leads (aka – the wake of revenue and reputation destruction that is caused by terrible sales reps speaking with your hard-earned, expensive leads is almost immeasurable) is not worth it. Fight the urge and bad business advice to just get butts in seats. And I guess that you are here reading this because you have already tried that mode and it failed. And with annual sales turnover costing companies millions, every wrong hire creates a hidden tax on growth that most leaders underestimate. Mads Faurholt-Jorgensen spoke about it in his TEDx Talk titled “ How To Master Recruiting ” with a focus on hidden talents over resumes. He called it the “whispering talents” – and in sales, we want that person who just automatically does the sales activities with the right mindset that fits your organization, sales process, and target customer type. TL;DR Most companies hire salespeople the same broken way: post a generic job, drown in resumes, waste hours interviewing, and end up with one shaky hire. It’s slow, costly, and sets teams up for turnover. The fix? Stop hiring based on resumes alone. Instead: Hire traits, not just experience (openness, curiosity, persistence, authenticity). Treat recruiting like a sales funnel by writing magnetic job posts, adding “hoops” that filter out the wrong candidates, and testing real-world behaviors like follow-up. This approach flips hiring from chaos into a scalable system—so you attract the right reps, faster, and avoid the expensive revolving door. In Part 2 of this series, I’ll show you exactly how I scaled this process to hire 50 salespeople without the chaos—complete with templates, filters, and lessons learned. Don’t miss it. And if you think that there might be some ways to improve your hiring process, contact us and we can do a free Hiring System Assessment to determine where the biggest impact can be made to help you fill your sales team.
By Jason Cutter February 26, 2025
How Can You Predict The Future Of Sales Ops? One of the keys to sales success is to be able to predict the future – what that other person is thinking, what they might say, what they will experience, how they will feel about the product/service. But what can you do – from a sales ops leadership perspective – to predict the future in masse of all the potential customers that will flow into and out of the sales process/funnel? That is a really tough one, but it is doable. Meeting Prospective Customers Where They Are The key is to always meet the prospective customers where they are and with the experience they hope to find. It’s a common theme now in these articles because it’s important AND widely disregarded – your potential customers do not care about you, your sales team, your company, your industry. They don’t care about your stats, your testimonials, your logos. They don’t care about your mission statement or your values. They only care about themselves. They also firmly believe that there is currently unlimited choice for any product/service, which means that everything in their mind is a commodity. Easily replaceable and interchangeable. Nothing (other than iPhones…which you can only get from Apple) is special to consumers unless they feel like it should be special. Are You Still Making It All About You? There is a good chance you are still running a marketing, sales funnel that is all about you. I bet if I looked at your company’s website that from the top down it’s all about you (the company). How great you are. What you do for people. What you have done for others. I bet if I tried to speak with your sales team, I will be made to go through your process whether I like it or not. Maybe fill out a form and wait for a response. Or made to call into a toll free number, even though I don’t want to talk to someone yet. Or made to use a chat widget on a site to get started. I bet when I speak with your sales team, 70-80% of the conversation will be about them, your company, and how amazing you all believe you are. This is all fair. No one starts a company to be mediocre. The goal is to provide value and make money. The missing piece, again like I said above, is no one cares about your goals. They only care about themselves. Predicting What Customers Want From The Sales Experience Back to your mission as sales ops leader – predict what massive amounts of prospective customers are going to want from the Sales Experience. It’s why I wrote about it last week and even offered up a book for free to help in any way that I can. To succeed at your mission, you have to stay ahead of the curve of what the public, and specifically – your buying demographic, psychographic, and valuegraphics, want from that experience. Key Questions To Shape The Sales Experience Do they want to call, text, email or chat? Probably all of them…so can you offer each one? (Don’t make someone decide if they want to go through your hoops…remove all the hoops) Do they need to see pricing online – should it be available and transparent? (In most cases, yes) What sales process will be ideal for moving the most people through the sales conversation to a successful outcome? (More discovery, empathy, active listening. More front-loaded about them, not you. Use the Authentic Persuasion Pathway as your model) Who are the decision makers? Is that individual going to decide or do they need to check with others for approval? (Set them up for success, and don’t force them to make a decision in the moment – you will just lose the potential sale) What type of follow up do they want and need until they make the buying decision? What type of post-purchase follow up would go above and beyond a) their expectations and b) what others in your industry do? If there is an ‘onboarding’ stage after the sale – how can you make that actually customer centric and successful? (It is rarely both) Can You Stay Ahead of the Curve? Remember – evolution is natural. The buying public is always evolving their desired sales experience. Can you predict the future of what they want so that when they encounter your company it matches what they were hoping to find – both in the experience and the solution to their need?
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
How do you, as a sales leader, help your team become Oracles that can predict the future? [make sure to read the Selling Effectiveness article this week https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.2.25.AM ] There are five ways to facilitate their Oracle-ness. Be Present in the Moment First, you have to get your salespeople to be in the moment. The challenge that most salespeople (and…humans, for that matter) experience is they are always thinking ahead. Salespeople default to thinking about what they will say next. The next part of their script or process. The next question they want to ask so they can get through discovery. The next part of the agreement they need to discuss and review. Their mind is too busy thinking about what they are going to say and do next, that they aren’t present. As weird as it sounds, if you want to predict the future you must be present. I have said this for decades: the moment you no longer need to think about what you are going to say/do next and can actually be present with your prospect and truly listen to what they say (and don’t say) – you will become a sales professional. Master Active Listening Second is Active Listening and paying closer attention. It’s actively listening…it’s taking what I mentioned above and putting into place. First step is to be present, second is to actually listen. For what they say. For what they aren’t saying. For changes in their tone. For when they are talking to someone on the side – who are they talking to, and is it about your sales conversation? If you sell in person, reading their body language and facial expressions. You must help them develop an almost sixth sense of listening (and yes, I know hearing is one of our senses…but this goes beyond hearing…it’s truly, deeply listening). Ask Better Questions Third, is to help them ask better questions. So many people in sales ask the discovery questions they are required to ask in order to check the discovery ‘box’. Or, they have done sales long enough they know all the answers, they think they know what everyone wants and why, so no reason to even ask questions. [Note – this type of salesperson thinks two dangerous things: 1 - everyone is the same and wants the same thing, 2 – people like to be sold to.] When your team asks better, deeper discovery questions with a focus on uncovering the what and the WHY, they will get better answers. Remember this – when you ask the right questions and you listen close enough, each prospect will tell you EXACTLY how to help them buy. Build Up Experience Fourth, build up experience. If you want to predict the future it comes from enough experience to know the probability of what will happen. For example, when I am in a season of commuting from home to an office, I am the type of person that can predict exactly what will happen on the freeway. Which lane is always faster around certain exits, which lanes always slow down, how much leaving five minutes later can make the drive suck a lot more. How do I know what will happen on a freeway with hundreds and hundreds of random people? Because of experience (and the fact that most people are just going through the motions in life so they become predictable). The more experience your team has with sales scenarios, they more they can predict the future. I generally see that it takes about six months for most people in a new sales role to have seen enough scenarios where they can start to know what will come next before it happens. Trust Intuition The fifth and final trait to help them with is intuition. One definition of intuition is “a thing that one knows or considers likely from instinctive feeling rather than conscious reasoning.” It’s that feeling you get when you know something, even if you cannot explain it. It’s what Malcom Gladwell wrote about in Blink! It’s what we do very well as humans, even if we don’t listen to it. The more you can help your team tune into their intuition and listen and trust it – the better they will do in helping persuade that other human. This goes back to the first suggestion – about being present. When your team trusts they know what to do and say next and they are mentally living in the moment with that prospective client, they can let their intuition guide them. Conclusion When I do trainings, public speaking, facilitating meetings, interviews, and sales – this is my main key to success. I trust and know that I have the experience to handle whatever comes my way in the present moment, while also knowing the destination I am heading towards. I can be present, let that experience and my intuition guide me instead of getting stuck in my head and worrying about what I will say next. Get your team to do some or all of these five steps – and they will become an amazing Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
The Oracle’s Role in The Matrix If you have seen the Matrix movies, starring Keanu Reeves (as Neo), then you are familiar with an Oracle. In the movies, the Oracle knows what will happen. She has seen it, and it is predestined. In the Oracles mind there is no such thing as free will. In the first Matrix movie, Neo goes to visit her and knocks a vase off the shelf, and it hits the ground and breaks. Right before he hits it, she says “Don’t worry about the vase.” Neo says, “How did you know?” Then the Oracle responds with “What’s really going to bake your noodle later on, is would you still have broken it if I hadn’t said anything.” Becoming an Oracle in Sales Your mission as a sales professional is to be an Oracle for your prospects and clients. To know the future. Then be able to see around corners, as they say. Which means you know what is going to happen before it happens, because you have enough experience that you have become a psychic. You want to be able to predict, with amazing accuracy: What will happen next What will happen after that What issues will pop up What your prospect/client is thinking before they think it What concerns they might have before they have them Eliminating the Fear of the Unknown During your presentation/demo you want to set the expectation of what is going to occur next. Remember, humans fear the unknown. They want to avoid risk as much as possible. Your sales presentation is risky and dangerous and very unknown. They don’t know if you have good intentions or not. Are you going to persuade them? Are you going to try to manipulate them? Are you going to overcharge them? Will you actually care about what they need and want? Dealing with salespeople is so scary. Yet they still need and/or want something, so it’s the dangerous game they must mentally play. Guiding the Buyer Step by Step When you explain what you are going to do in part 1 of your process, and then what that part is done you let them know the plan for part 2, and so on – they will be at ease in the moment. They will feel like they have control over this portion, that there is an exit they can take if they don’t want to proceed. That level of control will help them accept the risk of part 1, and part 2, and part 3. Tell them what you will do. Do it. Tell them what you did. This will validate that you can be trusted. Predicting Thoughts and Feelings The next level is being able to predict what they will think and feel before they do. You can use this information in your presentation (without telling them what you are doing). You can also verbalize it, which could sound like “I am guessing from experience that you are probably wondering about _____, so let’s cover that right now.” Or “most people I speak with ask about _____.” They will think – wow this person knows what I am thinking, he/she is in my mind! And that’s a good thing. A really good thing. Conclusion The more they feel like you know what you are doing, know what they are thinking, know what they are afraid of – the more they trust you as a Guide. Because Guides only know what they know because they have helped other Heros successfully accomplish their journeys. Your mission as a sales professional: Become an Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
What does it take to build the ideal Sales Experience? Why does it even matter? Maybe you think you already have one. You are a professional sales ops leader. You have put everything you can in place to help your salespeople sell more. You have optimized the processes so that your sales team can focus on one thing – selling. But I promise – even if you think all of that is true, it’s not. The Reality: No Perfect Sales Experience Exists I have never seen any company or team with the ‘ideal’ Sales Experience and operation. And to be honest – I have never built one successfully. Why would I admit that? Because the ideal Sales Experience is aspirational and business, teams, processes, and customer needs/desires are constantly changing. So as soon as you put new processes in place, something else needs to change and evolve. The Scalable Sales Success Iceberg In my Scalable Sales Success Iceberg – there are 24 categories that, when built out, create a scalable sales machine – where you can add in an input and get way more output. I would love to see companies have all 24 categories set up and running optimally. But that’s not even possible – because, as I mentioned, things are always changing. Focusing on the Biggest Levers Here is the key – to build the ideal Sales Experience takes focus on the biggest levers. The ones that, when pulled, create the biggest and best results. There are many processes and systems that you can put in place – but those are going to get you a few percentage points of improvement. Instead of putting it all in here, I want to make you a special offer. Email me at jason@sellingeffectiveness.com with your mailing address, and I will mail you the book that I co-wrote with Nick Glimsdahl called Reasons Not To Focus On The Sales Experience. It will be your starter guide, facilitating the creation of your ideal Sales Experience.
By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
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