[Replay] Future Proof Selling, with Steven Norman

January 18, 2024



Why do you want to be successful?


Why do you want to be successful? What is your intention when you approach your client? 


Rejections in sales are difficult and there may be mistakes made in your past sales experience. Your process in being real to persuade should focus with the intention of helping others with listening and understanding their needs. 


Featured in this episode of Future-Proof Selling hosted by Steven Norman, we discuss deeply about self-awareness, leadership, and being authentic when selling. 


Learn about the ‘sell holes, not drills’ concept and how you can use the method of authentic persuasion when customers are looking to buy. 



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  • Show Transcript

    Steven Norman: Authenticity and selling with authentic persuasion, what does that mean? Like it's authenticity thrown around a lot. I think it's a powerful concept and we should learn about it. But what does it mean to you?


    Jason Cutter: To me, it's really a nice single word that encompasses a lot of various things. The first one is self awareness.


    I think the fundamental thing is to be self aware. What's your strengths, what's your weaknesses, what your fears are. And then also in this part is super important is why do you want to be successful? Why do you want to do something? Why do you want to accomplish something? If you're in sales, why do you want to sell?


    Why do you want to hit your numbers? What are you going after and why is that important to you? Because sales is all about rejection. If it wasn't, it would be easy and everyone would do it. And so there's going to be roadblocks. It's going to be difficult. And so you have to know yourself really well.


    And so there's that parse, right? Where self awareness is key. And then to me, the other part, which is where I've always found success, is I don't try to pretend to be anyone else. I'm not trying to pretend to be the person in the next desk over who sells in a different way and speaks a certain way. I don't try to pretend I've had different experiences.


    The more I have found that I bring my authentic self and who I am, maybe I make mistakes, maybe I stumble, maybe I forget something. Maybe I talk about my past challenges. People like buying from real, authentic humans, not sales robots and not slick manipulators.


    Steven Norman: Yes, I think that's pretty powerful, isn't it?


    It goes for leadership as well, and when you're managing people, people will respond less to that corporate suit type of person, rabbiting the policy or something, right? And they're going to interact much better and be more open. With someone who's human. Yeah.


    Jason Cutter: And I think, leadership success comes from that, right?


    There's leaders out there in the world who will have success in getting people to follow them, even if they're not being authentic, even if not being truthful, even if their intentions aren't good, they'll do okay for a while, but it always ends and it ends poorly, right? At some point it will end in sales and in leadership, the more authentic you can be.


    Even if you're not perfect, right? Nobody expects anyone to be perfect. They will follow you and it will last longer. That's the key I found with being a sales professional and successful long term is when you're authentic and you're doing leadership type skills and practices, even with your customers, it's a long game.


    You're going to have a longer success instead of just like short bursts of success.


    Steven Norman: How did you realize that? Was there something that, did you have some sort of aha moment? About the power of adapting that. Were you always on that path or were you?


    Jason Cutter: No, definitely not always on that path. I got into sales and I wasn't really planning on it.


    And I was 27 when I got my first, let's say real sales job. And then I changed companies years and years later, and I was on the operation side because I didn't want to be in sales anymore. And then the owner made me the VP of sales. So not only sales, but leading sales for the first time. And I had to figure it out.


    And it was really in that role where I found the power, especially over the phone of being able to persuade people and get them out of. Their way out of their fear and to take action to purchase. And I really realized it. And with that being said, it wasn't until a long time later when I really analyzed it, looked back and said, what did I do that worked?


    What have I taught other people unconsciously? I haven't, I didn't plan on teaching them this. I just taught them this. And then what was I actually doing this whole time? Yeah, absolutely.


    Steven Norman: Absolutely. When we talk about authenticity, yeah, I did a lot of business in China. In the past, and I used to spend a lot of time there, and you get all these sort of rules and rituals you've got to go through with handing cards, and you've got to be polite to everyone, and the senior person has to sit somewhere and all of this stuff, and I came across someone, another Australian, who just totally ignored all of those protocols and he was just quite loud, and just said whatever came to his mind, And would put his arm around, the locals and this sort of thing, right?


    Oh, that's a no. Yeah. Yeah, but he had huge success. They absolutely loved him because he was himself. He was authentic and people just gravitated to that, right? So it just goes to show you don't have to follow the rule. You don't have to be like someone else. Whereas the role model might be for someone going to China, oh, you follow all the protocols and everyone just looks like a robot then.


    You can, yeah, I would really encourage people to be themselves, be their total selves when they come to work and when they're engaging with customers. And it's a pretty powerful concept.


    Jason Cutter: Yeah. And I think the big key when you're telling me that story about the other gentlemen, and I reflect back on my life and the things that I've done, even some people would look at like forceful sales, but I'm just trying to help somebody get.


    help them with a solution. And some people think, wow, you're really pushing that person. To me, the authentic piece and the persuasion piece comes down to intentions. If your intentions are, let's say, pure, correct. I don't, it's tough to say right or wrong, but if your intentions are focused on helping the other person and doing what you think is proper with the right.


    Place coming from inside of you that will overcome mistakes that will overcome those, not doing the cultural things. Correct. Like when we've all had that friend who they're making mistakes, right? Whether they're dating the wrong person or, they're making the wrong choices in life and they ask for your opinion and you just tell them and you're authentic and you're real and you care about them so much.


    Like you're just going to be real. You're not going to pretend. And that's really important. A lot of people shy away from that in sales, because again, they're worried about doing it a certain way that really holds people back in my opinion.


    Steven Norman: Yeah, absolutely. All right. So let's talk about some of some other concepts.


    I saw you wrote a blog or I know you're on your podcast. You talked about this concept of, selling holes, not drills, and it's a bit more nuanced than that, but maybe you could share your thoughts on that,


    Jason Cutter: I didn't come up with that originally. It's gone around a bunch,


    Steven Norman: but I thought you had a good take on it.


    Yeah.


    Jason Cutter: Yeah, the thing is that People don't buy drills. They don't buy hammers. They don't buy any tools. They buy the solution that they want, right? They want the hole in the wall. That's why they buy the drill, right? And if you extrapolate even further, they don't buy the hole. They buy because they need to put a, let's say, a, Bolt in the wall and they don't buy the, the bolts, they buy the fact that they need to hang a picture and they don't need to really hang the picture.


    Their goal is to really make their significant other happy. And that's the end result. So they're buying a drill for peace and happiness in their relationship. Most sales people miss the mark by focusing on the drill or the hammer and the features and all the cool stuff it does without really understanding the person doesn't care about it, doesn't the person doesn't care about your diamond tipped drill and how well it's going to do it.


    They want. What they want the end result. And so many salespeople miss that where they're just monologuing. They're basically reading off the brochure. They're focusing on the features. They're talking about how awesome they are and nobody cares. And then not to offend anybody, but nobody cares.


    Everyone only cares about themselves. So that customer only cares about what they're going to get and the end result. And the more as a salesperson, you can focus on that, right? Instead of talking about you and how awesome you and your product is or your service is, ask questions, dig deep, dive deep with that prospect, figure out what they really want.


    Once you do that, the drill sells itself, right? Then it's just instant. And then it's just, which one do I want? It's not, how much is it going to cost?


    Steven Norman: Yeah, absolutely. So I like it because the point you're making is you go beyond even, I want to make a hole, right? Yeah, it's why do you want to make a hole and then what's behind that and you're starting to tap into psychology and someone's psychological motivation of wanting to be liked probably or wanting to do the right thing or maybe get promoted or Achieve their goals in their job, right?


    Like when we're selling, B2B, we're selling some solution. It's not so much even having, the best solution. It's the solution that will help them, make their life easier in some way. Or


    Jason Cutter: yeah, it's about when you're doing B2B, especially, and I've taught so many people this, it's what does your prospective customer, that marketing person, that tech person, maybe even CEO, like what are they waking up at two o'clock in the morning worried about?


    And how can you solve that with your solution? Because the more you can get to that deep level, then again, you're not selling anything like that. Then the sales part and the negotiation part, it doesn't exist. Yeah, absolutely.


    Steven Norman: All right. So we really got to get at that, what's in it for them. And the more layers we can uncover, I think the better situation we're going to be in.


    And then we can play back our solution or our proposal. It can be in terms of what they want, right? And people are going to be much more receptive to that.


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By Jason Cutter February 26, 2025
How Can You Predict The Future Of Sales Ops? One of the keys to sales success is to be able to predict the future – what that other person is thinking, what they might say, what they will experience, how they will feel about the product/service. But what can you do – from a sales ops leadership perspective – to predict the future in masse of all the potential customers that will flow into and out of the sales process/funnel? That is a really tough one, but it is doable. Meeting Prospective Customers Where They Are The key is to always meet the prospective customers where they are and with the experience they hope to find. It’s a common theme now in these articles because it’s important AND widely disregarded – your potential customers do not care about you, your sales team, your company, your industry. They don’t care about your stats, your testimonials, your logos. They don’t care about your mission statement or your values. They only care about themselves. They also firmly believe that there is currently unlimited choice for any product/service, which means that everything in their mind is a commodity. Easily replaceable and interchangeable. Nothing (other than iPhones…which you can only get from Apple) is special to consumers unless they feel like it should be special. Are You Still Making It All About You? There is a good chance you are still running a marketing, sales funnel that is all about you. I bet if I looked at your company’s website that from the top down it’s all about you (the company). How great you are. What you do for people. What you have done for others. I bet if I tried to speak with your sales team, I will be made to go through your process whether I like it or not. Maybe fill out a form and wait for a response. Or made to call into a toll free number, even though I don’t want to talk to someone yet. Or made to use a chat widget on a site to get started. I bet when I speak with your sales team, 70-80% of the conversation will be about them, your company, and how amazing you all believe you are. This is all fair. No one starts a company to be mediocre. The goal is to provide value and make money. The missing piece, again like I said above, is no one cares about your goals. They only care about themselves. Predicting What Customers Want From The Sales Experience Back to your mission as sales ops leader – predict what massive amounts of prospective customers are going to want from the Sales Experience. It’s why I wrote about it last week and even offered up a book for free to help in any way that I can. To succeed at your mission, you have to stay ahead of the curve of what the public, and specifically – your buying demographic, psychographic, and valuegraphics, want from that experience. Key Questions To Shape The Sales Experience Do they want to call, text, email or chat? Probably all of them…so can you offer each one? (Don’t make someone decide if they want to go through your hoops…remove all the hoops) Do they need to see pricing online – should it be available and transparent? (In most cases, yes) What sales process will be ideal for moving the most people through the sales conversation to a successful outcome? (More discovery, empathy, active listening. More front-loaded about them, not you. Use the Authentic Persuasion Pathway as your model) Who are the decision makers? Is that individual going to decide or do they need to check with others for approval? (Set them up for success, and don’t force them to make a decision in the moment – you will just lose the potential sale) What type of follow up do they want and need until they make the buying decision? What type of post-purchase follow up would go above and beyond a) their expectations and b) what others in your industry do? If there is an ‘onboarding’ stage after the sale – how can you make that actually customer centric and successful? (It is rarely both) Can You Stay Ahead of the Curve? Remember – evolution is natural. The buying public is always evolving their desired sales experience. Can you predict the future of what they want so that when they encounter your company it matches what they were hoping to find – both in the experience and the solution to their need?
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
How do you, as a sales leader, help your team become Oracles that can predict the future? [make sure to read the Selling Effectiveness article this week https://go.sellingeffectiveness.com/LI.2.25.AM ] There are five ways to facilitate their Oracle-ness. Be Present in the Moment First, you have to get your salespeople to be in the moment. The challenge that most salespeople (and…humans, for that matter) experience is they are always thinking ahead. Salespeople default to thinking about what they will say next. The next part of their script or process. The next question they want to ask so they can get through discovery. The next part of the agreement they need to discuss and review. Their mind is too busy thinking about what they are going to say and do next, that they aren’t present. As weird as it sounds, if you want to predict the future you must be present. I have said this for decades: the moment you no longer need to think about what you are going to say/do next and can actually be present with your prospect and truly listen to what they say (and don’t say) – you will become a sales professional. Master Active Listening Second is Active Listening and paying closer attention. It’s actively listening…it’s taking what I mentioned above and putting into place. First step is to be present, second is to actually listen. For what they say. For what they aren’t saying. For changes in their tone. For when they are talking to someone on the side – who are they talking to, and is it about your sales conversation? If you sell in person, reading their body language and facial expressions. You must help them develop an almost sixth sense of listening (and yes, I know hearing is one of our senses…but this goes beyond hearing…it’s truly, deeply listening). Ask Better Questions Third, is to help them ask better questions. So many people in sales ask the discovery questions they are required to ask in order to check the discovery ‘box’. Or, they have done sales long enough they know all the answers, they think they know what everyone wants and why, so no reason to even ask questions. [Note – this type of salesperson thinks two dangerous things: 1 - everyone is the same and wants the same thing, 2 – people like to be sold to.] When your team asks better, deeper discovery questions with a focus on uncovering the what and the WHY, they will get better answers. Remember this – when you ask the right questions and you listen close enough, each prospect will tell you EXACTLY how to help them buy. Build Up Experience Fourth, build up experience. If you want to predict the future it comes from enough experience to know the probability of what will happen. For example, when I am in a season of commuting from home to an office, I am the type of person that can predict exactly what will happen on the freeway. Which lane is always faster around certain exits, which lanes always slow down, how much leaving five minutes later can make the drive suck a lot more. How do I know what will happen on a freeway with hundreds and hundreds of random people? Because of experience (and the fact that most people are just going through the motions in life so they become predictable). The more experience your team has with sales scenarios, they more they can predict the future. I generally see that it takes about six months for most people in a new sales role to have seen enough scenarios where they can start to know what will come next before it happens. Trust Intuition The fifth and final trait to help them with is intuition. One definition of intuition is “a thing that one knows or considers likely from instinctive feeling rather than conscious reasoning.” It’s that feeling you get when you know something, even if you cannot explain it. It’s what Malcom Gladwell wrote about in Blink! It’s what we do very well as humans, even if we don’t listen to it. The more you can help your team tune into their intuition and listen and trust it – the better they will do in helping persuade that other human. This goes back to the first suggestion – about being present. When your team trusts they know what to do and say next and they are mentally living in the moment with that prospective client, they can let their intuition guide them. Conclusion When I do trainings, public speaking, facilitating meetings, interviews, and sales – this is my main key to success. I trust and know that I have the experience to handle whatever comes my way in the present moment, while also knowing the destination I am heading towards. I can be present, let that experience and my intuition guide me instead of getting stuck in my head and worrying about what I will say next. Get your team to do some or all of these five steps – and they will become an amazing Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 25, 2025
The Oracle’s Role in The Matrix If you have seen the Matrix movies, starring Keanu Reeves (as Neo), then you are familiar with an Oracle. In the movies, the Oracle knows what will happen. She has seen it, and it is predestined. In the Oracles mind there is no such thing as free will. In the first Matrix movie, Neo goes to visit her and knocks a vase off the shelf, and it hits the ground and breaks. Right before he hits it, she says “Don’t worry about the vase.” Neo says, “How did you know?” Then the Oracle responds with “What’s really going to bake your noodle later on, is would you still have broken it if I hadn’t said anything.” Becoming an Oracle in Sales Your mission as a sales professional is to be an Oracle for your prospects and clients. To know the future. Then be able to see around corners, as they say. Which means you know what is going to happen before it happens, because you have enough experience that you have become a psychic. You want to be able to predict, with amazing accuracy: What will happen next What will happen after that What issues will pop up What your prospect/client is thinking before they think it What concerns they might have before they have them Eliminating the Fear of the Unknown During your presentation/demo you want to set the expectation of what is going to occur next. Remember, humans fear the unknown. They want to avoid risk as much as possible. Your sales presentation is risky and dangerous and very unknown. They don’t know if you have good intentions or not. Are you going to persuade them? Are you going to try to manipulate them? Are you going to overcharge them? Will you actually care about what they need and want? Dealing with salespeople is so scary. Yet they still need and/or want something, so it’s the dangerous game they must mentally play. Guiding the Buyer Step by Step When you explain what you are going to do in part 1 of your process, and then what that part is done you let them know the plan for part 2, and so on – they will be at ease in the moment. They will feel like they have control over this portion, that there is an exit they can take if they don’t want to proceed. That level of control will help them accept the risk of part 1, and part 2, and part 3. Tell them what you will do. Do it. Tell them what you did. This will validate that you can be trusted. Predicting Thoughts and Feelings The next level is being able to predict what they will think and feel before they do. You can use this information in your presentation (without telling them what you are doing). You can also verbalize it, which could sound like “I am guessing from experience that you are probably wondering about _____, so let’s cover that right now.” Or “most people I speak with ask about _____.” They will think – wow this person knows what I am thinking, he/she is in my mind! And that’s a good thing. A really good thing. Conclusion The more they feel like you know what you are doing, know what they are thinking, know what they are afraid of – the more they trust you as a Guide. Because Guides only know what they know because they have helped other Heros successfully accomplish their journeys. Your mission as a sales professional: Become an Oracle.
By Jason Cutter February 19, 2025
What does it take to build the ideal Sales Experience? Why does it even matter? Maybe you think you already have one. You are a professional sales ops leader. You have put everything you can in place to help your salespeople sell more. You have optimized the processes so that your sales team can focus on one thing – selling. But I promise – even if you think all of that is true, it’s not. The Reality: No Perfect Sales Experience Exists I have never seen any company or team with the ‘ideal’ Sales Experience and operation. And to be honest – I have never built one successfully. Why would I admit that? Because the ideal Sales Experience is aspirational and business, teams, processes, and customer needs/desires are constantly changing. So as soon as you put new processes in place, something else needs to change and evolve. The Scalable Sales Success Iceberg In my Scalable Sales Success Iceberg – there are 24 categories that, when built out, create a scalable sales machine – where you can add in an input and get way more output. I would love to see companies have all 24 categories set up and running optimally. But that’s not even possible – because, as I mentioned, things are always changing. Focusing on the Biggest Levers Here is the key – to build the ideal Sales Experience takes focus on the biggest levers. The ones that, when pulled, create the biggest and best results. There are many processes and systems that you can put in place – but those are going to get you a few percentage points of improvement. Instead of putting it all in here, I want to make you a special offer. Email me at jason@sellingeffectiveness.com with your mailing address, and I will mail you the book that I co-wrote with Nick Glimsdahl called Reasons Not To Focus On The Sales Experience. It will be your starter guide, facilitating the creation of your ideal Sales Experience.
By Jason Cutter February 18, 2025
The Numbers Game Mentality is a Losing Strategy Sales is no longer a “numbers game.” You cannot succeed, long term, by focusing on volume of activity. Making a million dials, sending a million emails, knocking on a million doors (the first two are way easier than that last one) is a scorched earth strategy that will sink your business. You can’t out-dial a bad sales process. It will lead to even more bad online reviews. You can’t out-email a terrible sales funnel process that requires people to jump through poorly planned hoops. You can’t out-knock your way past slimy tactics and bad products/services. The Danger of the "Every No Gets Me Closer to a Yes" Mindset The whole “every no gets me one step closer to a yes” mentally is dangerous. That mindset and strategy assumes that it’s a numbers game. That the only thing that matters is finding the right person who will buy from you. Potentially, no matter what you even say – they are just ready to buy. Not only will this destroy any online reputation you have it will also wreak havoc on your team. It is the fastest and best way to burn out your team. It will lead to a revolving door or hiring, training, and quitting as people realize how unfun the game is you have built and how hard it is to be successful. It will also feel like a mismatch – very few people (and hopefully even less over time) are long-term excited about the business model of calling 500 people a day in hopes of making a few sales. If It’s Not a Numbers Game, Then What Is It? It’s quality over quantity. [Now…note – it does take a certain quantity of activity to fill a sales pipeline. So I am not saying that your sales team can just sit and wait for people to fall into their pipeline with money in hand.] It’s about the Sales Experience. It’s about your team ensuring that they are providing the right and best experience for that potential customer – in a way that sets them up to get into the buying mood and mode. All that matters is the Sales Experience. How can you support your team in terms of the quantity of activity to fill a pipeline, and then the quality of interaction that leads to sales? What Does an Ideal Sales Experience Look Like? What does that look like – the ideal Sales Experience? It’s when your team understands that the potential customer they are speaking with only cares about themselves. They don’t care about the salesperson, your company or the product. They are only focused on themselves. It’s when the Discovery/Empathy portion of the conversation is the most important part. Does your team realize that everything after Discovery – when done right – is just a presentation of the solution? It’s the fact that when you combine the parts of the Authentic Persuasion Pathway (Rapport + Empathy + Trust + Hope + Urgency) that the assumptive close is all you need. If your team is having to ask for the sale they are doing sales wrong. And don’t confuse earning the right to close with asking for the sale. The Sales Leader’s Role in Creating a World-Class Sales Experience Your job as a sales leader is to ensure your team understands that the only thing – above all else – is the sales experience they provide to each potential customer. That customer knows that they have the power and the feeling of unlimited choice. Which means they will decide who to give their money to based on the experience they have with buying from a company. How can you shift your team away from the numbers game mentality to actually providing a world class sales experience to each and every person they speak with?
By Jason Cutter February 17, 2025
The Abundance of Options Today we all have lots of options. While writing this I could speak into my phone and order whatever I want. I can get food delivered before I finish writing this article. I could get a TV delivered to my door before I wake up tomorrow. When someone wants to buy something, they are armed with as much information as they want to access. They can research, read reviews, and watch videos about a product or company. The Shift in Power to the Buyer Because of this, the power balance of sales has shifted away from the salesperson and company to the buyer. Knowledge is power – and they now have all the knowledge they want. With knowing that they have ultimate choice of what to buy (internet and globalization has led to the ability to order anything you want from anywhere…so you are no longer limited to the stores you can drive to and what they have on hand), it means that everything is a commodity in their minds. Nothing is unique or special. Everything is interchangeable. Does the Sales Experience Even Matter? So, this means the sales experience doesn’t matter anymore. There is no reason to put effort into the sales process, the conversations with potential customers. No value in spending time trying to ‘help’ people – since they just view products, salespeople, and companies as interchangeable. You are not special, so there is no benefit in caring. They will walk into your store, and they will decide what they want. They fill out your online for, and they decide if they answer when you call and how the call will go. They walk up to your event/booth, and they decide how the interaction will go and if they want to listen to your elevator pitch. They will let you know if they are interested in moving forward. They will let you know how they want to buy. So, like I said above, there is no real value anymore in the sales experience. Or could it actually be valuable? Is it possible that all that matters IS the sales experience? If people feel they have ultimate information and control of the buying process, how do they decide on what to buy and who to buy from? When I search on Amazon for a product type I have never purchased before, how do I pick? When I want to go shopping for garden supplies for the house, how do I pick where to go? When I need to buy a new fridge, who will I hand my money over to? The cheapest place with terrible service? The place with reasonable prices and great service? The Sales Experience Shapes the Decision I choose based on the sales experience that I will receive. With everything else being equal, I (and I believe most people) will select the place to shop at or the products to buy online based on the experience I receive. To me all that matters is the experience. While I am trying to buy something. Once I receive it – ensure it does what I need it to do. With the feeling of unlimited choices, it can actually be harder now to buy something that in the past. People get into analysis paralysis more often. Which means that for consumers to buy something new they need help. They need a professional salesperson. They need a sales experience that matches their expectations. They want a guide who will help them make the right decision for them, with an experience that goes above and beyond what more people receive any more when they walk into a store, call a company’s toll-free number, or visit a website and have to fill out a form. If you want to succeed in sales – the only thing that matters is the sales experience you provide.
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